The Yale Law Journal

VOLUME
125
2015-2016
NUMBER
8
June 2016
2182-2555
Article

Foundling Fathers: (Non-)Marriage and Parental Rights in the Age of Equality

Serena Mayeri

abstract. The twentieth-century equality revolution established the principle of sex neutrality in the law of marriage and divorce and eased the most severe legal disabilities traditionally imposed upon nonmarital children. Formal equality under the law eluded nonmarital parents, however. Although unwed fathers won unprecedented legal rights and recognition in a series of Supreme Court cases decided in the 1970s and 1980s, they failed to achieve constitutional parity with mothers or with married and divorced fathers. This Article excavates nonmarital fathers’ quest for equal rights, until now a mere footnote in the history of constitutional equality law.

Unmarried fathers lacked a social movement of their own, but various groups and interests fought for their own causes on the battleground of nonmarital parenthood. Nonmarital fathers’ claims posed a particular dilemma for feminists, who promoted gender-egalitarian parenting within marriage but struggled over the implications of unmarried fathers’ rights for women’s autonomy and for substantive sex equality. The Justices’ deliberations, in contrast, focused on the rights of men and on ensuring the smooth functioning of adoption procedures. The Court largely avoided the feminist dilemma, instead framing cases as disputes between husbands and unwed fathers. Denying nonmarital fathers’ request to be treated as “de facto divorced fathers,” the Court reaffirmed the legal supremacy of marital families.

The Court’s failure to engage difficult questions about substantive sex equality reverberated beyond the parental rights cases to leave its mark on the twenty-first century jurisprudence of citizenship. As nonmarital parenthood becomes the American norm, recovering its constitutional history illuminates how and why marital status still delimits the boundaries of equality law.

author. Professor of Law and History, University of Pennsylvania Law School. I am grateful to Regina Austin, Kristin Collins, Deborah Dinner, Katie Eyer, Smita Ghosh, Sarah Barringer Gordon, Martin Guggenheim, Clare Huntington, Genevieve Lakier, Sophia Z. Lee, Robin Lenhardt, Kevin Noble Maillard, Solangel Maldonado, Terry Maroney, Mary X. Mitchell, Melissa Murray, Douglas NeJaime, Allison Kirkpatrick Powers, Dorothy Roberts, Daniel Sharfstein, Jed Shugerman, Reva Siegel, Justin Simard, Edward Stein, Sarah Swan, Allison Tait, Mark Tushnet, and Adnan Zulfiqar for generous comments and conversations about earlier versions of this project. Participants in workshops and conferences at Fordham University, the University of Pennsylvania, Vanderbilt, Queens University, New York Area Family Law Scholars, and annual meetings of the Law and Society Association and the American Society for Legal History also provided valuable feedback. Smita Ghosh contributed superb research assistance. For help gathering sources, thanks are due to Alvin Dong, Edwin Greenlee, and the staff of the Biddle Law Library at the University of Pennsylvania Law School; John Jacob of the Powell Archives at Washington & Lee University School of Law; Patrick Kerwin of the Library of Congress; Meagan Buckley; Zachary Frazier; Emily Prifogle; Sennett Rockers; and Thomas Wheeler. Finally, my thanks to Lucas Croslow and the editors of the Yale Law Journal for thoughtful editorial assistance.


Introduction

The twentieth-century constitutional equality revolution transformed the laws of marriage, divorce, and parenthood. As a matter of formal law, though not social reality, husbands and wives turned into spouses with identical rights and duties; divorcing mothers and fathers became parents with sex-neutral obligations of care and support. Formal equality under the law eluded nonmarital parents, however. Marital status remained a legitimate basis of legal differentiation. The legal primacy of marriage endured, even as rates of nonmarital cohabitation and childrearing soared.

Today, sex neutrality in the law of parenthood depends upon marital status. Mothers and fathers generally enjoy formally equal rights to the custody, care, and control of their marital children. In contrast, a nonmarital father does not possess the same parental rights—or responsibilities—as his female counterpart. And although nonmarital fathers won unprecedented legal rights and recognition as parents, they never achieved parity with married and divorced fathers.

Traditionally, fathers had few rights or responsibilities to their nonmarital children. In the early 1970s, nonmarital fathers seized upon emerging constitutional equality principles to challenge their inferior parental status. Over the next two decades, the Supreme Court decided a series of cases that first expanded and then contracted “unwed fathers’” constitutional rights. Behind the scenes, the Justices wrestled with, but to a surprising degree ultimately avoided, a central question presented by these cases: how the evolving jurisprudence of equal protection, which made marriage and divorce formally sex-neutral, should apply to the parental rights of nonmarital fathers. The Court also declined advocates’ invitation to treat nonmarital fathers like “de facto divorced fathers” and to condemn discrimination based on marital status. Today, the unwed fathers cases are a mere footnote to the story of the constitutional equality revolution.

In the twenty-first century, as a widening “marriage gap” separates the well-off, highly educated haves from impoverished, less educated, have-nots, nonmarital parenthood is the dominant reality of American family life.1 Yet, as Clare Huntington observes, “the marital family serves as a misleading synecdoche for all families,” leaving family law ill equipped to address the needs of many families and communities.2 An economically stratified legal regime reproduces fault lines based on race, class, gender, and marital status: many elite, college-educated couples seek relatively egalitarian partnerships and negotiate under a default rule of shared parenting, while the state’s efforts to privatize dependency through stringent child support enforcement discourage parental involvement by poor fathers.3

The anomalous legal treatment of unmarried fathers looms large for commentators who decry family law’s failure to protect nonmarital families.4 Because parental rights and responsibilities are inextricably intertwined, mothers who bear the default burden of care and support also endure the consequences of sex and marital status inequality in parenthood.5 Nonmarital children, who are disproportionately poor and of color, suffer from the use of marital status as a proxy for parental legitimacy.6 Yet concerns about substantive sex equality left hardly a mark on the Court’s decisions, and marital status remains a legitimate determinant of parental rights. This Article investigates how and why this came to be.

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Before midcentury, the parental rights of nonmarital fathers barely registered as a question, much less a moral and constitutional dilemma. Unwed fathers, long deprived of legal rights and usually liberated from legal obligations, seemed largely irrelevant, except to the extent the state could call upon them to support children who otherwise would depend on public assistance.7 Profound legal and societal changes recast the problem of nonmarital fatherhood in the 1960s and early 1970s. Rates of nonmarital childbearing rose; women’s workforce participation grew; and divorce rates climbed. Whereas in earlier decades, most unmarried white mothers had relinquished their infants for adoption, more now raised them alone or with nonmarital partners. African-American women had long cared for nonmarital children with the support of extended families, largely excluded from public aid to the presumptively white “deserving poor” and from adoption opportunities. Now, poor women of color gained access to public assistance benefits, heightening anxieties about “promiscuity,” “illegitimacy,” and “welfare dependency.”8 Efforts to hold nonmarital fathers financially responsible for their children intensified.9

In this golden age of social movements, previously disenfranchised groups organized and fought for recognition and redistribution. Civil rights advocates dismantled de jure racial segregation.10 Feminists attacked discrimination in education and employment, and sought reproductive freedom and equality in public and private life.11 Anti-poverty activists fought for welfare rights.12 Defenders of a more traditional social order found these claims deeply threatening. Conservatives charged feminists with destroying the very foundation of American society. Punitive welfare regulations such as “suitable home” and “substitute father” exclusions sought to deter nonmarital sex, limit welfare expenditures, and force poor men and women of color into low-wage work.13 Many anti-illegitimacy laws were thinly veiled attacks on civil rights activism,14 but even those who embraced African-American civil rights often believed a patriarchal family structure essential to racial progress.15 “Fatherlessness,” the corollary of “matriarchy,” emerged as a perceived threat to family and social stability.16

Unlike divorced fathers, who mobilized to influence family law reform,17 nonmarital fathers generally did not form organizations to advocate for their parental rights during this period. The plaintiffs in the unwed fathers cases were not handpicked for their sympathetic characteristics by advocacy organizations. Indeed, many of these men had checkered histories as partners or as parents and were represented by organizations with goals orthogonal to their own objectives and motivations. Various legal and social movements and interests buffeted the men who claimed the role of father outside of marriage. Feminists, civil libertarians, adoption advocates, child welfare organizations, lawmakers, and judges offered competing visions of the relationship between marriage, parenthood, and sex equality.

For feminists, the question of sex neutrality in nonmarital parenthood was especially fraught. Many influential feminist advocates—most prominently, law professor and ACLU lawyer Ruth Bader Ginsburg—promoted an egalitarian model of marriage in which mothers and fathers shared caregiving and breadwinning responsibilities.18 In cases such as Weinberger v. Wiesenfeld, which extended Social Security “mother’s insurance benefits” to widowed fathers, Ginsburg and her allies insisted on the importance of fathers’ roles as nurturers of children.19 The resulting constitutional sex equality canon primarily featured married couples or widowers seeking equal rights for husbands and wives.20 How this gender-egalitarian model applied to nonmarital families remained an open question and one about which feminists increasingly disagreed.

The paramount importance of shared parenting to sex equality within marriage seemed evident. When feminists argued over the best way to promote egalitarian marital parenting through post-divorce custody rules, they disagreed primarily about means rather than ends. When feminists challenged laws and policies that withheld public benefits and private rights from nonmarital families, they differed over matters of strategy but agreed that such practices subordinated women, who most often cared for and supported nonmarital children.21 Feminists’ dissension over sex equality in nonmarital parental rights was more profound. When parents had never married, a mother’s consent to a biological father’s relationship with her children could not so easily be assumed. Nonmarital parenthood crystallized a larger feminist dilemma: how to balance aspirations for a sex-neutral world with a social reality of persistent inequality.

Feminist debates centered upon the consequences of nonmarital fathers’ rights for women’s autonomy and equal status and implicated growing concerns about the unjust termination of poor parents’ parental rights. The Justices, too, disagreed about nonmarital fatherhood but for very different reasons. Court deliberations focused on the rights of men who fathered children outside of marriage and on the smooth functioning of adoption procedures. The robust debate among feminists about the meaning of nonmarital fathers’ rights for substantive sex equality barely penetrated the Justices’ internal deliberations, much less the Court’s opinions.

This Article excavates the history of nonmarital fathers’ constitutional equality claims. Part I explores the renaissance of interest in unwed fathers in the 1960s and early 1970s, as social scientists, social workers, and legal professionals reexamined longstanding assumptions about their rights, roles, and responsibilities. Using archival and other primary sources, this Part examines the landmark case of Stanley v. Illinois22 to reveal the surprising openness of the constitutional field for unwed fathers’ rights on the eve of the sex equality revolution. Stanley came to the Court as an equal protection case, and early draft opinions embraced expansive visions of sex and marital status equality. But the ruling focused primarily on due process and left uncertain the scope of this “revolution” in unmarried fathers’ rights.

The half-dozen years after Stanley brought rapid and deeply contested legal and social change. Part II examines developments in constitutional law, marriage and divorce, and social movements such as feminism, antifeminism, and fathers’ rights that set the stage for conflict among feminists over the meaning of sex equality for nonmarital parenthood. As Part III recounts, these disagreements occurred largely behind the scenes in the 1970s, influencing amicus participation in Court cases about stepfather adoption but remaining below the Justices’ radar.

In the 1980s, feminists’ disagreement about nonmarital fathers’ parental rights surfaced in two cases that reached the Court but produced no decision on the merits. These cases concerned biological fathers’ right to object to a mother’s decision to place her newborn infant up for adoption, and feminists filed briefs on both sides. As Part IV describes, the Court instead decided, on due process grounds, two other cases framed as contests between husbands and nonmarital fathers. The winner, by the end of the 1980s, was marital supremacy, as the Court rejected nonmarital fathers’ rights in favor of husbands’ and ignored feminists’ arguments both for and against sex neutrality.

Part V examines how and why nonmarital fathers’—and feminists’—campaigns for constitutional equality fell short. Whereas divorced fathers successfully mobilized to make child custody law formally sex-neutral, nonmarital fathers lacked comparable resources, cultural capital, and social movement support. Feminists and their allies attempted to shape the law of nonmarital parenthood, but the Justices’ debates and resulting jurisprudence reflected instead the values of the divorced fathers’ rights movement and traditionalist conservatism. After 1989, the Court largely withdrew from the constitutional regulation of nonmarital fathers’ parental rights, leaving states to go their own way.

The Justices’ failure to engage difficult questions about the relationship between formal sex neutrality and substantive equality reverberated beyond the parental rights cases to leave its mark on equality jurisprudence. At the turn of the twenty-first century, when the Court considered discrimination against fathers in their ability to transmit citizenship to nonmarital children, the majority imported principles from the parental rights cases to reject fathers’ claims. More broadly, the unwed fathers cases helped to enshrine marital supremacy in constitutional law. Marital status still delimits the boundaries of constitutional equality in parenthood, even as nonmarital families become the American norm.

The constitutional law of the family today stands at a critical turning point. The advent of marriage equality marks the final triumph of formal sex neutrality in the law of marriage, discarding archaic assumptions about the proper roles of husbands and wives. Same-sex relationships have also disrupted conventional definitions of parenthood, demoting formal indicia such as marriage and biology in favor of more intent-based and functional criteria.23 Whether marriage equality heightens or diminishes the legal and constitutional significance of marital status, however, remains to be seen. For those who hope to reshape the law to meet the needs of nonmarital families, unwed fathers’ attack on marital supremacy illuminates the challenges ahead.

I. a legal renaissance for unwed fathers, 1960-1972

The social and legal revolutions of the 1960s and early 1970s transformed unwed fathers from personae non gratae into individuals with constitutional rights and obligations. An array of social movements, animated by issues from civil rights to reproductive freedom to women’s equality, provided new constitutional weapons for men who resisted the presumption that nonmarital fathers were at best, irrelevant, and at worst, irresponsible derelicts. Challenging decades of exclusive focus on unwed mothers, a small but influential cadre of social work professionals and social scientists sought to rehabilitate unmarried fathers and show them worthy of study and support.

On the eve of the constitutional sex equality revolution, when the Supreme Court considered its first unwed father lawsuit, observers and litigants viewed Stanley v. Illinois24 as presenting fundamental questions about equality between men and women, and between marital and nonmarital parents. The field was wide open: the Court had just begun to question “illegitimacy”-based classifications and had yet to hold that any legal distinction between men and women violated equal protection. Early draft opinions challenged discrimination based on sex and marital status head-on, suggesting that any differential treatment of mothers and fathers or of married and unmarried parents might be constitutionally suspect. In the end, Stanley was decided primarily on due process grounds. And while even the ultimately narrower decision in Stanley initially seemed “revolutionary,” its implications for unwed fathers’ rights and for the development of equality jurisprudence remained uncertain.

A. “An [E]lusive Ghost”: Social Workers and Lawyers Discover the Unwed Father

Nonmarital parenthood poses a conundrum in a society that privatizes dependency in the nuclear family, channels government benefits through marriage, provides minimal state support for caregiving, and engages in limited wealth redistribution. By the middle decades of the twentieth century, American policymakers had constructed a social and legal infrastructure that presumed wives and mothers would provide primary care for children and other dependents, while husbands and fathers furnished financial support and social insurance benefits through gainful employment.25 “Unwed mothers” who kept and raised their children without a man’s support threatened not only the public fisc, but also a political and legal system that assumed that marital households are the basic economic unit of society and the primary site of social provision. Thus the ideal cure for the “problem of illegitimacy” was the marriage of the child’s parents or adoption into a two-parent marital family.

At common law, an “illegitimate”26 child was filius nullius, a “child of no one,” and her parents largely escaped legal responsibility for her care and financial support. Whereas guardianship and custody of marital children belonged to the father (eroded in practice by the “tender years” presumption),27 nonmarital children traditionally were mothers’ responsibility by default. In the nineteenth-century United States, legal reforms afforded nonmarital children the right to support and to inheritance from their mothers.28 Fiscal concerns spurred the enactment of statutes imposing some financial liability on “natural” fathers when paternity was proven, though enforcement was sporadic at best.29But in the mid-twentieth-century United States, illegitimate children’s paternal inheritance rights remained limited,30 and nonmarital fathers enjoyed parental rights decidedly inferior to those of unmarried mothers and of married or divorced fathers.31 To many, this seemed unremarkable: after all, if nonmarital fathers bore little or no responsibility for their nonmarital children, then awarding sole rights to mothers was only fair compensation for their social and economic burdens. Some feminists, in contrast, had long protested the default assumption of maternal responsibility, noting that it enabled nonmarital fathers to escape both the moral opprobrium and the financial obligations of unwed parenthood.32

As rates of “illegitimacy” rose and became politically salient at mid-century,33 social scientists and social work professionals focused their efforts on studying and “rehabilitating” unwed mothers.34 Experts analyzed young women who became pregnant outside of marriage in racially differentiated terms, often explaining nonmarital childbearing among young white women as an individual neurosis and among young black women as cultural pathology.35 Fathers seemed largely irrelevant, except to the extent they could financially support children not relinquished for adoption.36 Social worker and adoption expert Leontine Young’s 1954 book Out of Wedlock devoted a single, short chapter to “the unmarried father,” calling him “in almost every case a counterpart of the neurotic personality of the mother.”37 In 1960, sociologist Clark E. Vincent estimated the ratio of studies probing unmarried motherhood versus fatherhood at twenty-five to one.38 With adoption by strangers the favored solution to nonmarital childbearing among young white women, fathers were cast as shadowy villains who had little to offer the women they impregnated or the children their illicit liaisons produced. As social worker Linda Burgess wrote in 1968, “[T]he unmarried father has remained an illusive ghost in most adoption placements.”39

The problem of unwed fatherhood gained prominence in the following decade, thanks to a confluence of factors. As previously excluded families of color gained access to Aid to Families with Dependent Children, growing concerns about welfare expenditures and illegitimacy spurred punitive attempts to hold the sexual partners of impoverished African-American women financially responsible for their nonmarital children, including through “substitute father” provisions withholding public assistance from households containing a “man in the house.”40 At the same time, norms surrounding nonmarital childbearing shifted: unmarried, middle-class white women less frequently entered maternity homes and relinquished their infants for adoption.41 Gradually, sociologists and social workers began to investigate the emotional, psychological, and social needs of young unmarried fathers. An early pilot program in Los Angeles, launched in 1963 and supported by the U.S. Children’s Bureau, studied close to one hundred unmarried fathers receiving services formerly reserved for mothers from a Jewish social service agency. The results purported to defy “stereotypes” about feckless unwed fathers, finding many young men to be receptive to counseling and interested in participating in decisions about their child’s life.42 Other programs began to serve young unmarried fathers of color in urban, high-poverty areas. In 1969, a Harlem social worker told the New York Times that “working with putative fathers is very fashionable now.”43

Unmarried fathers, long typecast as sexual exploiters of vulnerable, young women who abandoned their children,44 began to appear in more varied guises: the cohabiting parent-partner, functionally indistinguishable from his married counterpart but barred from a licit relationship because of an inability to end a prior marriage; the well-intentioned young man willing to marry the mother of his child but rejected by her; the poor but sympathetic teenaged boyfriend, suffering from a dearth of parental supervision and paternal role models;45 the father genuinely interested in maintaining a relationship with his child after the breakdown of a nonmarital romance; the eager father bereft over a mother’s decision to give up her child for adoption.46 One 1966 study concluded that “[a] majority of young men who get girls pregnant out of wedlock are neither irresponsible nor casual about their obligations to the girls and their babies,” prompting a reporter’s observation that “unwed fathers are more emotionally involved with the women they impregnate than is popularly believed.”47 A 1969 article reported caseworkers’ newfound perception that nonmarital pregnancies often “resulted not from a casual encounter but from a long-term, meaningful relationship in which the young people expressed love and affection for each other.”48 And social workers at a 1970 workshop on unmarried teenage parents “testified that not only did the mothers want to keep their babies but that unmarried fathers were also very concerned about what happened to the children.”49

As social scientists and social work professionals began to show greater interest in unmarried fathers, Vincent warned that legal rights could not be far behind. “[A]s the father is given greater public visibility and receives some services,” Vincent wrote, “greater attention will be given to his ‘rights,’ legal and otherwise.”50 Vincent proved prescient, forecasting a development aided by larger social and legal shifts in the late 1960s and early 1970s. The no-fault divorce revolution created a growing contingent of noncustodial fathers whose varying levels of post-divorce contact with their children raised questions about the presumed correlation between marital status and paternal engagement. Pressure began to build for more robust child support enforcement efforts as divorce and nonmarital childbearing produced more impoverished single-parent households.51

At the same time, feminist attacks on sex-based stereotypes about women’s natural superiority as mothers and inferiority as economic and political actors undermined the notion that only mothers could nurture and form strong psychological bonds with children. Some feminists, including leading legal scholars and strategists, envisioned a more gender-neutral approach to the family and to family law, arguing that men and women should be free to defy traditional gender roles and build egalitarian marriages where both partners shared breadwinning and caregiving responsibilities. Fatherhood itself “lost cultural coherence,” in the words of historian Robert Griswold, as feminism and the entrance of married women and mothers into the workforce in unprecedented numbers “prompted a far-reaching cultural debate about fatherhood never before known in American history.”52

Further, as the “best interests of the child” standard began to displace the traditional maternal preference in child custody determinations at divorce, the definition of children’s best interests evolved. A small but growing body of literature suggested that a child’s relationship with his “natural” father was crucial as a matter of psychological health as well as financial stability.53 Influential illegitimacy expert Harry Krause, a law professor at the University of Illinois, declared in 1967 that it was “time that the matter be considered from the standpoint of the child!”54 In the late 1960s, Krause collaborated with the ACLU, the NAACP Legal Defense Fund, and other advocates to attack legal classifications based on illegitimacy. As I have described in detail elsewhere, plaintiffs in these early illegitimacy cases were African-American women and their children; opponents of illegitimacy penalties argued that laws excluding illegitimate children from wrongful death and workers’ compensation payments, from public assistance benefits, from parental inheritance, and from child support laws constituted discrimination based on race and poverty. They also argued that children should not be penalized based on the marital status of their parents, a matter wholly outside their control. By 1972, the Court had decided a handful of illegitimacy cases in the plaintiffs’ favor, on decidedly child-focused grounds. Without questioning the legitimacy of promoting marriage and discouraging nonmarital childbearing, the Court ruled that “hapless” and “innocent” children should not suffer for their parents’ transgressions.55

The emerging consensus that punitive anti-illegitimacy measures should not be permitted to harm blameless children papered over profound disagreement about sex, gender, and the problem of illegitimacy. Whereas some civil libertarians, anti-poverty advocates, and later feminists questioned marital supremacy, championed sexual liberation, and viewed illegitimacy penalties as unjustly subordinating women, Krause and other more conservative reformers set out to rescue children from the scourge of fatherlessness. The nonmarital child’s best interests, Krause believed, required eliminating the legal disabilities that prevented illegitimate children from calling upon their fathers’ resources. His proposed Uniform Parentage Act, ultimately promulgated in 1973, recommended presumptions for determining paternity with the aim of establishing legal relationships between nonmarital children and their fathers.56 The fiscal imperative to secure all available private sources of support for nonmarital children fused with a growing sense that nonmarital fathers could provide less tangible benefits to their offspring—an intact sense of self, a stable authority figure, even a sometime caregiver.57

By the early 1970s, many policymakers and social work professionals agreed that previously overlooked nonmarital fathers warranted further study and regulation.58 But there was little consensus about how to approach legal or social reform of nonmarital fatherhood. Most could agree on the desirability of securing paternal financial support from nonmarital fathers, though they struggled over the practicalities of holding impecunious fathers responsible. But custody and control of children were another matter entirely. Should the law continue to assume that nonmarital fathers would routinely shirk their parental obligations, rendering them presumptively unfit to participate in their children’s upbringing? Or did changing family structures warrant a rethinking of nonmarital fathers’ roles? What would nonmarital fathers’ rights mean for adoption law and practice? How should disputes between unmarried parents be adjudicated? And if feminists hoped to remake marital families in a gender-egalitarian image, what did sex equality require in the absence of marriage?

B. “Much is Not Challenged Until Now”: The Court Confronts Equality for Unwed Fathers in Stanley v. Illinois

In the spring of 1970, less than two years after the death of his “common-law wife” of eighteen years, Peter Stanley looked on helplessly as a judge declared his two young children wards of the state, condemning them to a series of foster placements and their father to years of legal turmoil. Illinois’s definition of “parent” excluded “natural” fathers of illegitimate children, thus denying Stanley even a hearing to determine whether he was fit to parent the children he loved and had helped to raise from birth.

These were the stark facts that Peter Stanley’s lawyers presented to the U.S. Supreme Court in 1971. The reality of Stanley’s legal status and of his record as a father was more complicated.59 But if Stanley had been a woman, married or unmarried, or if he had been able to produce proof of a valid marriage to the children’s mother, he would have been their legal parent and would almost certainly not have lost his parental rights.

Stanley’s inability to produce a marriage certificate made him a legal stranger to Kimberly, age two-and-a-half, and Peter Jr., age one-and-a-half.60 In some states, Stanley could have presented proof of a common law marriage, but Illinois abolished that institution early in the twentieth century.61 Instead, Stanley’s attorneys argued that Stanley “did build up and develop a father relationship” with his children. “[W]e feel,” said Fred Meinfelder of Legal Aid, that while he was not legally married to his wife that that should not be a basis for removing those children from him . . . .”62 State officials told the judge that Stanley was “not in a position to provide financial support” for his children but that “if he did have some progress and was to marry and establish an orderly family situation” he might be able to petition for custody later.63 His lawyers emphasized that if Stanley were not a legally recognized parent, he would have no standing to petition later for custody or any other rights. And while he might be able to find a wife and “establish an orderly family situation” in the future, under Illinois law Stanley could do nothing to change his legal parenthood status with regard to Kimberly and Peter, Jr. As an amicus brief later put it, “there is no way to marry a dead person.”64

Before the Illinois Supreme Court, Stanley’s lawyers argued that the exclusion of fathers of illegitimate children from the category of “parent” violated the Fourteenth Amendment.65 In a cryptic opinion, the Illinois court ruled that unmarried fathers had no rights to their natural children unless such rights were granted to them by a court in an adoption or guardianship proceeding.66 Stanley had not sought guardianship or custody of his children, preferring to leave them in the care of a married couple whom he had asked to look after Kimberly and Peter Jr. a few months earlier. Pursuing an adoption would have been risky, as Stanley would have been required to meet a much higher standard than mere fitness—he would have had to prove himself a “suitable” parent.67 As a practical matter, then, the court’s ruling meant that he could be denied all access to the children—and indeed, he later petitioned for visitation to no avail.68

1. Sex and the Single Father: Stanley Before the Supreme Court

Stanley’s case reached the Supreme Court at a turning point in the law of sex equality. The Court’s most recent ruling on a sex-based equal protection claim had upheld Florida’s exemption of women from jury duty on the ground that the “woman is still regarded as the center of home and family life.”69 In 1971, the Court had yet to extend the umbrella of equal protection to forbid sex discrimination against women, much less against men.70 But lower courts were beginning, in fits and starts, to rule for sex discrimination plaintiffs, and with the women’s movement resurgent, the political climate seemed increasingly hospitable. The Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) was before Congress; advocates for abortion law reform argued that reproductive freedom was central to sex equality;71 Ginsburg brought a lawsuit on behalf of a man who cared for his elderly mother but was denied Social Security benefits awarded to similarly situated female caregivers;72 and feminist lawyers from the Center for Constitutional Rights demanded equal parental-leave benefits for a husband who wished to stay home to care for his newborn child.73 Although feminists who had long challenged women’s legal, political, and economic disabilities were beginning to represent male plaintiffs disadvantaged by sex stereotypes, nonmarital fathers’ claims under the Constitution were new.74

Illinois’s custody statute discriminated based on both marital status and sex: the category of “legal parent” included unmarried mothers but not unmarried fathers; marital fathers were parents, but nonmarital fathers were not. Peter Stanley’s case, argued the same day as Reed v. Reed,75a sex equality challenge to Idaho’s preference for male estate administrators, struck many as primarily involving a question of sex discrimination—or “sex discrimination in reverse,”76 in one reporter’s characterization. A typical headline the day after oral arguments announced, “Supreme Court Asked to Upset ‘Sexist’ Laws in Illinois, Idaho.”77 Justice Blackmun’s clerk Robert E. Gooding, Jr. thought Stanley should have argued that sex was a suspect classification as Ginsburg and her ACLU colleagues were contending in Reed.78Stanley’s briefs instead focused on a “biological and cultural” father’s fundamental interest in his children as triggering the compelling state interest test. Illinois’s interest, the lawyers argued, was not sufficiently compelling to justify the “drastic means” of extinguishing an unmarried father’s parental rights upon the death of his children’s mother.79 Even under rational basis review, Stanley’s lawyers argued, exclusion of unwed fathers from the legal definition of a parent did not serve the interests asserted by the state—protecting the welfare of illegitimate children and promoting “the procreation of the species by and through the marriage relationship.”80 And if the state sought to promote marriage, why were unmarried mothers not similarly excluded?81

Although Stanley’s supporters did not use the language of stereotyping that soon would become prevalent in the Court’s sex equality jurisprudence,82 they did contend that individuals should not be judged by group-based generalizations. Even if most unmarried fathers did not develop stable and caring relationships with their illegitimate children, some did, and presuming otherwise was unjust and unconstitutional. And even married fathers frequently did not develop strong and sustained bonds with their children, especially if the marriage had dissolved. Why, they asked, should divorced fathers who had not seen their children in years enjoy parental rights while devoted, never-married fathers were legal strangers?

Stanley’s lawyers resisted attempts to frame the equal protection issue as one of simple sex discrimination, emphasizing that Illinois singled out unwed fathers for discriminatory treatment.83 Illinois’s defense, too, inextricably intertwined marital status and sex. Mothers, the state maintained, generally assumed legal and social responsibility for their children regardless of legitimacy.84 A mother who abandoned her child at birth without arranging for its care committed a crime; fathers of nonmarital children did the same with impunity.85 Imposing “the full range of parental duties” on mothers and on married fathers warranted granting them “the full range of parental rights.”86 Mothers, by definition, were present from birth. And “[m]othering,” the state contended, “is the result of the primary sexual drives of females.”87

Fathers, on the other hand, required a state-sanctioned legal structure to impress them into the bonds of parenthood. To accomplish this feat, Illinois concluded, “[t]he chosen institution of the state is marriage.”88 To earn equal status with a child’s mother, the state reasoned, a father must demonstrate his commitment to the family by marrying her.89 Under Illinois law, in fact, marriage was the only way, short of adoption, for a man affirmatively to assume parental duties and obtain parental rights. Tying fatherhood to marriage, Illinois had developed a “comprehensive statutory pattern” designed to ensure that children were cared for by fit and responsible adults.90 Marriage conferred parental rights, the state argued, because it entailed non-negotiable duties. Married fathers assumed responsibility for children by virtue of the marital bond—indeed, most states conclusively presumed husbands to be the fathers of their wives’ children regardless of biology. In contrast, “[t]he putative father normally does not live with the mother of his illegitimate children on a permanent basis,” the state contended.91 “He establishes no fixed family unit, but only a transient relationship . . . .”92 Moreover, unlike a legitimate father, he “often has no responsibilities” to his children or their mother.93 Even imposing the “pecuniary obligation of support” required legal action by the mother.94

Illinois defended marital primacy both as consonant with children’s best interests and as an end in itself. Unmarried fathers rarely took an interest in their children, Illinois contended, and when they did, their motives were suspect: in Stanley’s case, the state suggested that he wanted access to his children’s Social Security survivors benefits but had no desire to assume responsibility for their care.95 To ensure that unfit fathers could not manipulate the system at their children’s expense, the state required them affirmatively to demonstrate commitment and fitness by adopting their children.96

Stanley’s case against the exclusion of unwed fathers from parental status challenged the Court to overturn decades, even centuries, of precedent denying any legal relationship between a father and his illegitimate child. He attacked the premise that marital status was a proxy for parental fitness. But in another sense, Stanley did not radically challenge marital supremacy. His attorneys emphasized how Peter and Joan Stanley had lived together in a marriage-like relationship, referring to Joan as Peter’s “common-law wife.”97 Peter’s relationship with Joan and their children was no different from that of a husband and legitimate father, they said, and it was irrational to treat him as if he were uninterested and irresponsible. “The fact [that] Peter Stanley was a voluntarily acknowledging and supporting father who had created and maintained a family is not changed by the mere presence or absence of a marriage certificate.”98

Indeed, Stanley’s lawyers suggested, couples who cohabited without marriage were different from men and women whose casual liaisons produced children.

Except for the legal factor, this may be a family like any other. . . . The very fact that they are parents in the social and emotional as well as the biological sense distinguishes them immediately from the unmarried mother and the unmarried father who establish no real or lasting relationship with each other.99

In other words, the brief implied, the quality of a father’s relationship to the mother of his children was indeed relevant to determining his parental fitness, but sociological reality, rather than legal formality, should guide recognition of family status. Notably, such a functional definition of family still relied on marriage as a model, maintaining the privatization of dependence and linking parental rights to obligations. Even so, Stanley challenged fundamental assumptions about sex and marital status as determinants of legal parenthood.

2. “The Mother-Father Dichotomy”: Sidestepping Sex Equality in the Supreme Court

Internal correspondence reveals how much was up for grabs as the Justices grappled with questions of sex equality, the significance of marital status, and contested assumptions about unmarried fatherhood. Some early drafts of Justice Byron White’s opinion in Stanley decried the Illinois law as sex discrimination, pure and simple.100 A draft opinion by Justice Thurgood Marshall excoriated the equation of nonmarital fatherhood with paternal dereliction.101 Ultimately, however, White’s sex equality analysis did not survive, Marshall never filed his opinion attacking marital status discrimination, and Stanley’s legacy for equal protection law remained ambiguous.102 In the end, a case that seemed clearly to present questions of discrimination based on sex and marital status became a due process case only nominally decided on equal protection grounds.

The Stanley Court was a Court in transition. Since the first illegitimacy cases in 1968, President Richard Nixon had replaced Earl Warren with Warren Burger as Chief Justice. Abe Fortas, who, like Warren, voted with the plaintiffs in those cases, resigned from the Court; Harry A. Blackmun took his place in late 1970. Hugo Black and John Marshall Harlan, two of the Justices who voted against the illegitimacy plaintiffs, retired from the Court in September 1971, and Lewis F. Powell, Jr. and William H. Rehnquist were confirmed for their seats in December. Because Stanley was argued in October 1971, neither Powell nor Rehnquist participated; the case was heard and decided by a seven-member Court.103

Framing Stanley as a sex discrimination case might have seemed a promising strategy to overcome the Court’s apparent ambivalence about nonmarital fatherhood. In the 1971 case Labine v. Vincent, the Court appeared to retreat abruptly from its 1968 decisions in Levy v. Louisiana and Glona v. American Guarantee & Liability Co. recognizing the rights of illegitimate children to equal protection of the laws.104 Newly minted Justice Blackmun had cast one of his first Supreme Court votes in Labine to uphold an inheritance law that distinguished between the legitimate and illegitimate children of fathers who died intestate. Yet Blackmun was inclined to sympathize with Stanley’s plight. “This is a very appealing case on its facts, he wrote in an internal memo. Those facts, of course, make it difficult to affirm if one is going to be at all emotional. After reading his clerks bench memo, Blackmun tentatively changed his mind, but noted that he could be persuaded otherwise.105

At first, it seemed this close and interesting” case would be dismissed on procedural grounds.106 At conference, four of the seven sitting Justices—Chief Justice Burger and Justices Blackmun, Brennan, and Stewart—voted to dismiss the petition as improvidently granted due to uncertainty about the Illinois Supreme Courts vague opinion interpreting the state law. Brennan drafted a brief per curiam opinion to this effect.107

However, the other three Justices soon circulated dissents from the proposed dismissal, some advancing views of the case not presented by the litigants. Justice William O. Douglas, recently the author of the Courts first decisions invalidating illegitimacy-based discrimination,108 initially saw the Illinois law not as an invidious discrimination against unwed fathers, but rather a protection of illegitimate children. Most unmarried fathers, Douglas opined, are not present at their childrens births and like hit-and-run drivers are difficult to locate.109 Most unmarried mothers did not remain involved in their childrens lives, either, he believed, but rather decide[d] to place their offspring in the care of the state.110 Given childrens interest in swift and certain placement in adoptive homes, and prospective parents likely reluctance to adopt if a father might later demand custody or visiting privileges, Douglas thought the Illinois scheme reasonable.111 Even when unwed fathers volunteered for parental duty, Douglas, like Illinoiss lawyers, suspected their motives might be more pecuniary than paternal.112 In any event, he could not imagine an alternative system which might more meticulously tailor [the challenged law] to its legislative objective of ensuring the welfare of illegitimate offspring.113

Douglas’s draft cast unmarried fathers as callous, irresponsible, and opportunistic, in implicit contrast to married fathers, whose legal responsibility for their legitimate children presumptively entitled them to parental rights. His focus on adoption suggests that the mothers and children Douglas had in mind were white (as the Stanleys were).114 Marshall likely perceived the legal treatment of nonmarital parenthood as particularly affecting African-American families. His draft opinion115 called the use of marital status as a proxy for parental fitness an “overinclusive stereotype.”116 To presume that an unwed father was “most likely to have weak emotional and practical ties to his children, and little ability or willingness to assume parental responsibilities” was to make a “judgment” that “suffers from the deficiencies of any stereotype.”117 The leap from illegitimacy to unfitness, Marshall argued, was wholly unwarranted. “There are many reasons for illegitimacy in our society . . . ,” he wrote, including incentives created by welfare programs.118 A father might decline to marry the mother of his children in order to maximize the familys eligibility for financial assistance, in which case the fact of illegitimacy provides no support whatever for the inference that the father lacks concern for his children; indeed, it may tend to suggest the contrary conclusion.119 Or, like Stanley, a father might have lived with his children and their mother in what would, in some states, be a common-law marriage.120 Given the enormous magnitude of the deprivation suffered by fathers who developed relationships with their children, and the low cost of giving fathers notice and an opportunity to be heard, Marshall argued that Illinois law denied unwed fathers equal protection.121

Of the three draft dissents from dismissal, only Whites survived, though his eventual majority opinion in Stanley differed significantly from earlier versions. Whites first draft castigated the state for impos[ing] the presumption that if a father did not engage in the formal ceremony which would have bound his relationship with the now deceased mother until death or divorce, that therefore he is now unfit to raise his children.122 That presumption, White insisted, risks running roughshod over the interests of both the surviving father and the children.123 It also violated Stanleys right to due process, since there is nothing in this record lending any assurance, much less substantial assurance, to the proposition that Peter Stanley, having lived with and supported his children all their lives, is an unacceptable father solely because of his failure to participate in a marriage ceremony.124 Before Stanley could be deprived of his children, White wrote, he must at least have the opportunity . . . to demonstrate that he has not been a neglectful parent.125

Unlike his final opinion, White’s first draft also tackled Stanley’s equal protection claim head-on, framing the Illinois law as discriminating against unmarried fathers as compared with all other biological parents. “It may be,” White wrote,

that in general there is some relationship between unwed fathers and incompetent fathers. It is plausible that the relationship between the set of unwed mothers and the set of incompetent mothers is weaker than the relationship between the counterpart sets of fathers. It even may be that separated or divorced fathers are more likely to be competent than are unwed fathers.126

White “doubt[ed] all these propositions. But even if they are all in general well taken, some unwed fathers are fit parents, some married fathers and unmarried mothers totally unfit.”127 The stereotype might have some basis, in other words, but “convenient administrative discrimination of this nature cannot be tolerated when the issue at stake is the potential dismemberment of a family.”128

White’s draft apparently persuaded Douglas, who circulated a new draft of his own, much shorter than the first, agreeing that Illinois’s presumption of unfitness violated procedural due process.129 Douglas did not agree with White’s equal protection analysis, however: he read White’s draft to forbid states from “requir[ing] a stricter showing of parental fitness” from unwed fathers than from other parents.130

White’s second draft—now styled as an opinion for the Court—possibly appealed even less to Douglas, for it framed the equal protection claim as a sex discrimination issue:

[O]n the death of a spouse, unwed fathers lose their children but unwed mothers suffer no diminution of control. This discrimination between natural parents according to the superficial mother-father dichotomyunnecessarily ignores and impermissibly overrides the relevant criterion of a parent’s capacity to raise his child. Under this standard, capable men . . . are separated from [their children], simply because they are men. Such a division of the class of biological parents into two groups, each defined by an immutable characteristic that does not reliably reflect the underlying realities with which the State is concerned, cannot pass muster in the face of constitutional standards long established and recently reiterated by this Court.131

White’s draft went on to quote at length from Chief Justice Burger’s yet-to-be-released opinion in Reed v. Reed, which struck down Idaho’s preference for male estate administrators and for the first time invalidated sex discrimination under the Equal Protection Clause.132

White’s sweeping sex discrimination argument was risky, as it implied that mothers and fathers should have equal rights to their children, perhaps regardless of marriage or other factors. Neither Stanley nor his amici had gone this far, and it seemed unlikely that this view could command a plurality, much less a majority of the Court. Indeed, in his never-published draft opinion, Marshall did not opine on whether nonmarital fathers were entitled to equal rights with mothers in a custody dispute between parents; Stanleys suit was, crucially, a contest with the state, not with a mother or a married father.133

Neither Whites full-blown sex neutrality rationale nor Marshalls emphasis on marital status equality garnered a majority.134 In the end, Whites opinion for the Court focused almost entirely on due process, affirming Stanleys interest . . . in the children he has sired and raised but leaving open many questions about the rulings scope.135 A lengthy passage about parental rights consigned to a footnote in earlier drafts appeared prominently in the text of the finished opinion. The rights to conceive and to raise ones children have been deemed essential,’” White wrote.136 The interest of a man in the children he has sired and raised, undeniably warrants deference and, absent a powerful countervailing interest, protection.137 White used the early illegitimacy cases to support the extension of this solicitude to unmarried fathers. Nor has the law refused to recognize those family relationships unlegitimized by a marriage ceremony,” he wrote, characterizing the “familial bonds” of nonmarital families as “often as warm, enduring, and important as those arising within a more formally organized family unit.”138 Even if granting procedural protections to unmarried fathers would be costly and time-consuming, “the Constitution recognizes higher values than speed and efficiency,”139 White concluded, and to deprive unwed fathers of a fitness hearing available to all other custodial parents denied them equal protection.140 As constitutional scholar Gerald Gunther observed, the Courts decision relied only marginally on equal protection, a back door through which to decide the case without relying on an argument not raised in the state courts below.141

The Court’s opinion in Stanley sidestepped the questions White had faced head-on in his earlier draft: could states deny unmarried fathers rights they granted to unmarried mothers? How did the nascent jurisprudence of sex equality apply, if at all, to unwed parents’ rights and duties? Burger—author of the cryptic opinion in Reed, which revitalized sex-based equal protection law—made his views clear in dissent. He thought states were “fully justified in concluding, on the basis of common human experience, that the biological role of the mother in carrying and nursing an infant creates stronger bonds between her and the child than the bonds resulting from the male’s often casual encounter.”142 White’s majority opinion did not speak directly to this sex discrimination question, which many believed to be central to the case.143

Stanley’s effect on marital primacy also remained nebulous. Certainly, granting any rights to unwed fathers made paternal prerogatives less dependent upon marital status than they traditionally had been.144 As Chief Justice Burger wrote in an early draft of his dissent, “Unmarried fathers are not recognized, they are given no rights, and they are burdened with no responsibilities. . . . This has been the pattern of societys dealing with the support and paternity of illegitimate children for centuries and never challenged until now.145 In the margin of his copy, Justice Blackmun, who eventually joined Chief Justice Burgers dissent, wrote: Well, much is not challenged until now, and cited Reed v. Reed.146Although it opened the door to further erosion, Stanley declared an end neither to the “mother-father dichotomy” nor to the privileging of marital families.

Many saw Stanley as “revolutionary” in its unprecedented embrace of biological fathers’ due process rights, and its declaration that children could not be removed from a parent’s custody without a hearing to determine fitness. But whether Stanley portended more than nominal parental rights for nonmarital fathers remained to be seen.147 Stanley pitted an apparently involved father against the state; when the interests of mothers, husbands, marital fathers, or adoptive parents weighed in the balance, granting rights to unwed fathers seemed more like a zero-sum game.148

II. the emergence of a feminist dilemma: parenthood, (non)-marriage, and the sex equality revolution, 1972-77

The 1970s were transformative for feminism, family law, and not coincidentally, the rise of conservative movements to reassert traditional values. This Part describes developments in feminist legal advocacy, sex equality law, marriage and divorce, fathers’ rights, and anti-feminism that shaped how advocates and legal decision makers viewed nonmarital fatherhood. Feminists agreed that sex neutrality for married parents served the goals of women’s equality and liberation from traditional gender roles, and they persuaded the Court to endorse their egalitarian vision of marital parenthood. However, feminists were ambivalent about sex neutrality in nonmarital parenthood, at least where the interests of mothers and fathers diverged.

Second-wave feminist legal advocates set out to transform the traditional marital bargain in which husbands supported wives and children in exchange for wives’ caregiving labor and personal services. In the years after Stanley, Ginsburg and her allies largely succeeded in persuading the Supreme Court to require governmental neutrality with respect to the gendered division of labor within marital households. Expanding fathers’ caregiving roles was a key component of Ginsburg’s vision of egalitarian marriage, in which husbands and wives enjoyed the freedom to choose nontraditional roles and to become interdependent, even interchangeable spouses. A less visible and less successful strand of feminist legal advocacy attacked illegitimacy penalties as an affront to sex equality. Fathers played a more complicated role in this strand of advocacy, depending on the context of the rights or benefits fathers claimed as rightfully theirs. Feminism’s relationship to the movement for divorced fathers’ rights was similarly complex. And increasingly, feminists disagreed among themselves over the meaning of sex equality for nonmarital parenthood.

A. “An Ideal Case”: Married Fathers as Equal Parents in Weinberger v. Wiesenfeld

In the years following Stanley, many of feminists’ greatest advances toward constitutional sex equality came in cases involving sex-based classifications in the provision of government benefits to married couples. Ginsburg’s “grandmother brief” in Reed v. Reed contained a now-famous Appendix that listed hundreds of sex-based distinctions in state and federal marriage laws.149 Many feminist legal advocates saw marriage as a primary vehicle for the perpetuation of sex and gender roles that confined women to a stifling domesticity and deprived them of political and economic power. Marriage also loomed as a central locus of government complicity in sex inequality. Feminists argued that by casting husbands as breadwinners and wives as dependent caregivers, the state devalued women’s wage-earning and men’s caregiving work, rewarding gendered division of labor in marital households and penalizing couples who failed to conform to traditional gender roles.

Accordingly, many of the cases in the growing constitutional sex equality canon involved married couples or widowers challenging the government’s previously unquestioned prerogative to distinguish between husbands and wives for the purposes of awarding government benefits. Ginsburg’s litigation campaign convinced a majority of the Court that the government should remain neutral toward gender roles in the marital family. In cases such as Frontiero v. Richardson (1973) and Califano v. Goldfarb (1977), the Court struck down government benefit schemes that assumed wives’ and widows’ dependence and deprived the families of women wage-earners of advantages available to their male counterparts.150 Backed by a robust social movement seeking equality on many fronts, including legislative and constitutional amendment advocacy at the state and federal levels, these cases helped feminists to achieve through litigation what they had originally sought to accomplish through an equal rights amendment.151

Feminists’ vision of gender-egalitarian marriage extended beyond breadwinning wives; they took care also to spotlight the abilities and importance of fathers as caregivers and nurturers of children. Ginsburg and her colleagues believed that encouraging husbands to take on greater responsibilities at home was integral to enabling women to pursue rewarding careers without sacrificing family relationships or well-being. Such active fatherhood also benefited men and children, who would enjoy richer relationships liberated from the traditional gender roles that, as Ginsburg often emphasized, limited men as much as women. In Ginsburg’s “ideal case,”152 Stephen Wiesenfeld, widowed by his wife’s death in childbirth, challenged his exclusion from Social Security “[m]other’s insurance”153 benefits, which would have allowed a widowed mother to reduce her working hours and receive government support to care for a child at home.

In a rare unanimous decision, the Justices agreed. Justice Brennan’s majority opinion, drafted by his first female law clerk, Marsha Berzon, embraced both of Ginsburg’s arguments. Men were, to be sure, “more likely than women to be the primary supporters of their spouses and children,” Justice Brennan wrote.154 “But,” he continued, “such a gender-based generalization cannot suffice to justify the denigration . . . of women who do work and whose earnings contribute significantly to their families’ support.”155 Paula Wiesenfeld, a schoolteacher and, for a time, the family’s primary breadwinner, received fewer benefits from her hard-earned wages than a similarly situated man, whose family could have collected “mother’s insurance” benefits, would have. Further, the statute discriminated “among surviving children solely on the basis of the sex of the surviving parent.”156 It was “no less important for a child to be cared for by its sole surviving parent when that parent is male rather than female,” Justice Brennan continued.157 “And,” he wrote, quoting Stanley, “a father, no less than a mother, has a constitutionally protected right to the ‘companionship, care, custody, and management’ of ‘the children he has sired and raised, (which) undeniably warrants deference and, absent a powerful countervailing interest, protection.’”158

Justice Powell’s concurring opinion, joined by Chief Justice Burger, agreed that the “statutory scheme . . . impermissibly discriminates against a female wage earner,” but attached “less significance” than the majority did to a father’s nurturing role.159 “In light of the long experience to the contrary,” Justice Powell wrote, “one may doubt that fathers generally will forgo work and remain at home to care for children to the same extent that mothers may make this choice.”160 Privately, Justice Powell disapproved of fathers who would abdicate the breadwinner role. When his clerk, Penny Clark, speculated that fathers who elected to stay home with children would be “a small class, no doubt,” Powell wrote in the margin of her memo, “I would hope so—though the ever-increasing welfare rolls even in prosperous times suggest a high level of indolence.”161 Wiesenfeld marked a triumph for the feminist vision of egalitarian marriage and shared parenting, even as it exposed continuing ambivalence among the Justices about the proper roles of mothers and fathers.

B. Fiallo v. Bell and the Feminist Argument for Nonmarital Parents’ Rights

As Ginsburg and her colleagues sought to encourage an egalitarian division of labor at home and in the workplace, another strand of feminist legal advocacy focused on alleviating discrimination against mothers of nonmarital children. Far less coordinated than Ginsburg’s litigation strategy, the campaign against illegitimacy penalties enlisted an assortment of self-identified feminist advocates as well as civil rights, anti-poverty, and legal aid lawyers during the 1970s.162 Feminists argued that laws, policies, and practices that penalized nonmarital childbearing had particularly devastating consequences for women, who, as a matter of law and of custom, had long borne primary if not exclusive responsibility for the care and support of nonmarital children.163 They attacked laws that excluded illegitimate children from public benefits, from workers’ compensation, from recovery for parents’ wrongful death, and from paternal child support and inheritance.164 And they challenged prohibitions on the employment of “unwed mothers,” mandatory paternity disclosure requirements that forced mothers to reveal the names of their nonmarital children’s fathers, and the exclusion of never-married mothers from the Social Security survivors’ benefits the Court had extended to marital fathers in Wiesenfeld.165

Nonmarital fathers appeared in various guises in feminist advocacy against illegitimacy penalties. In litigation challenging Texas’s exclusion of nonmarital fathers from civil and criminal liability for child nonsupport, these men were deadbeats who, aided and abetted by the state, avoided the pecuniary responsibilities of fatherhood. In other cases, such as employment bans that singled out women with nonmarital children, advocates noted that mothers who embraced the responsibilities of parenthood suffered while fathers who abandoned their families escaped scot-free. Mandatory paternity disclosure cases painted an especially unflattering picture of unwed fathers, with mothers expressing their reluctance to involve fathers who might resent being called to account, and might even resort to violence.

But in most illegitimacy penalty cases, the interests of nonmarital mothers and fathers were not necessarily opposed. Laws that created obstacles to paternal inheritance for illegitimate children thwarted fathers who might have intended to provide for their nonmarital offspring. Excluding illegitimate children from public benefits or private compensation available to legitimate children injured the parent or parents with primary responsibility for those children regardless of sex. Even employment bans that did not directly affect fathers arguably discouraged them from maintaining potentially salutary relationships with their nonmarital children.

Some of the 1970s cases involved illegitimacy and sex-based discrimination that directly disadvantaged nonmarital fathers and, less obviously, harmed mothers. One such lawsuit, Fiallo v. Bell, challenged several laws that denied certain citizenship and immigration privileges to nonmarital fathers and their children, but not to nonmarital mothers and their children.166 Each of the plaintiff families in Fiallo included fathers who had supported and nurtured their nonmarital children.167 Their briefs used Stanley, Wiesenfeld, and the growing social science literature on fatherhood to extol the virtues of unmarried fathers who defied stereotypes to participate fully in raising their children, only to be unjustly denied the opportunity to transmit or receive citizenship status on the basis of the parent-child relationship.

Fiallo presented a largely foregone opportunity to advance an explicitly feminist argument for nonmarital fathers’ rights. Indeed, a footnote in the plaintiffs’ brief in Fiallo suggested that eliminating the sex-based discrimination in the challenged laws would actually benefit nonmarital mothers.168 A U.S. citizen who fathered a child by a noncitizen could rest assured that, if he could not care for his illegitimate U.S.-domiciled child, “that child can be united in this country with the other parent, the mother.”169 But a U.S. citizen mother in the same circumstance “has no similar assurance . . . since the father is effectively barred from entering this country.”170 Just as Paula Wiesenfeld’s Social Security benefits were worth less to her family than a husband’s would have been, so a mother’s U.S. citizenship did not guarantee her and her children the care of their “sole surviving parent.”171 Ginsburg wanted to file an amicus brief in Fiallo, presumably in order to make just such an argument, but despite the support of several colleagues, ACLU Legal Director Mel Wulf rejected the idea for reasons that are not clear.172

Some jurists did see the challenged distinctions between fathers and mothers in Fiallo as constitutionally problematic because of their harm to fathers and nonmarital children, as opposed to mothers. Judge Weinstein dissented from the three-judge district court ruling upholding the laws, and Powell’s clerk J. Philip Jordan initially called the laws “totally arbitrary sex discrimination,” before concluding that Congress’s plenary immigration power nonetheless counseled against striking them down.173 Powell ultimately wrote the majority opinion upholding the provisions. His clerk Gene Comey recommended that Powell avoid endorsing the government’s contention that “natural fathers and illegitimate children” were less likely to have a “strong interest in intimacy” than other parents and children.174 Comey saw “no reason to rely on this somewhat ‘distasteful’ argument,” which contravened the Court’s recent shift toward “a position where legitimate and illegitimate families are generally considered to have a strong degree of family intimacy and unity.”175 Justice Powell rejected Comey’s advice, referring in his opinion to “a perceived absence in most cases of close family ties” between fathers and their nonmarital children as a legitimate rationale.176 Justice Marshall’s dissent in Fiallo condemned the challenged provisions, citing the sex equality cases, the illegitimacy cases, and the “fundamental ‘freedom of personal choice in matters of marriage and family life.’”177 He saw the majority’s position as sanctioning “invidious discrimination” against nonmarital fathers and children, contrary to precedents such as Stanley and Wiesenfeld.178

In cases such as Stanley, Wiesenfeld, and Fiallo, fathers’ constitutional claims dovetailed with feminists’ desire to encourage paternal caregiving and to combat sex-stereotypes about maternal superiority that threatened women’s status as full citizens. In these cases, the interests of mothers and fathers, married or not, coincided: fathers’ rights served mothers’ rights. In the increasingly contentious arena of divorce reform and child custody, however, the story was quite different.

C. “The Cart Before the Horse”: Divorce, Fathers’ Rights, and the New Nonmarital Bargain

Although unmarried fathers did not organize in large numbers during the 1970s, divorced fathers did. Legal historian Deborah Dinner has uncovered a robust and influential mobilization of fathers’ rights activists intent on shaping a new “divorce bargain” in the wake of the no-fault revolution.179 As Dinner describes, rising divorce rates and feminist self-assertion threatened the patriarchal ideal to which many fathers’ rights leaders subscribed.180 At the same time, economic recession, wage stagnation, and rising unemployment combined with increasingly vigorous child support enforcement efforts to put financial pressure on divorced fathers.181 Fathers’ rights activists capitalized on the rise of formal sex equality to argue for their own brand of gender neutrality at divorce. Divorced fathers sought to minimize their financial obligations to ex-wives and children, arguing that sex equality meant women should support themselves post-divorce.182 Ex-wives, they argued, had no claim on their former spouses’ income since they were no longer providing the homemaking services that underpinned the marital bargain. Moreover, fathers’ rights advocates challenged maternal preferences in child custody as unjust sex discrimination that deprived fathers of cherished relationships with children.183 Many feminists, too, scorned the maternal preference, but for very different reasons. As Dinner recounts, “[f]eminists argued that the [maternal] presumption entrenched gender ideologies that maintained mothers’ primary responsibility for caregiving.”184

Since at least the late 1960s, some feminists had expressed misgivings about the no-fault revolution’s consequences for women and children. Fault-based divorce, they believed, gave wives a valuable bargaining chip: the ability to withhold consent if their husbands did not agree to fair financial and custody arrangements. Easier divorce, they worried, would not liberate women so long as courts did not ascribe value to wives’ homemaking and caregiving labor when distributing property and fashioning alimony awards. Instead, men would be free to discard their wives, abandon their children, and start life anew while newly single mothers with few marketable job skills languished in poverty. The decline of the maternal presumption in child custody decision making also seemed to undermine women’s bargaining position. Whereas maternal preferences placed the onus on fathers who genuinely desired custody, the “best interests of the child” standard apparently penalized the parent who most feared losing custody, pressuring her to trade away financial support in exchange for uncontested custody rights.185

Anti-feminist activism also pushed more feminists to address the plight of women who had devoted their lives to homemaking and motherhood, only to find themselves in dire economic straits when their marriages ended. Phyllis Schlaflys campaign against the ERA excoriated the amendments proponents for abandoning homemakers to the penury of divorce on demand, which, in the colorful rhetoric of opponents, allowed husbands to abandon their wives and children with impunity.186 Schlaflys core constituency included women who had counted on the traditional marital bargain, only to feel that feminists had pulled the rug out from under them. ERA opponents argued that egalitarian marriage threatened financial and existential insecurity for women who had already chosen to specialize in caregiving. As the ERA ratification battle wore on, proponents increasingly emphasized how fragile the traditional marital bargain had been under the old regime of title-based property distribution and unpredictable alimony awards. They framed the ERA as a tool for equalizing the financial consequences of divorce by valuing homemakers contributions to the marital household and enforcing divorced fathers child support obligations.187

By the mid- to late- 1970s, some had begun to question whether feminists had put the cart before the horse, as ACLU Juvenile Rights Project director and self-described feminist Rena Uviller suggested. If sex-neutral custody laws presently either reflected a reality of pervasive shared child care during marriage or helped eliminate persistent sexual stereotyping in the job market, they would be a legitimate feminist objective, wrote Uviller.188 But the economic and social reality of the late 1970s and early 1980s was no egalitarian utopia. The practical fact remains that the male-dominated working world is not yet prepared to receive women on equal terms. Nor are fathers in meaningful numbers assuming equal child care responsibilities during marriage.189 Fathers rights organizations might couch their arguments in terms of sex neutrality and childrens best interests, but Uviller detected misogynist[ic] overtones in their excoriat[ion] of wives as blood-sucking parasites and alimony as an undiluted evil.190 In light of severe and persistent inequalities in the workplace and at home, maintaining the maternal presumption was more like affirmative action than invidious discrimination. [A]t this point in history, Uviller concluded, the law should recognize a womans option to keep the children whose daily care she has so disproportionately assumed.191

Rising divorce rates converged with nonmarital childbearing to increase the number and visibility of single mothers and female-headed households in the 1970s, plunging even formerly middle-class women and children into poverty. Some feminists argued that for many poor women shared parenting was a pipe dream. “[T]he vast majority of mothers below the poverty line are single: either never married, separated, or divorced,” Uviller wrote in 1978. “For them, the notion of shared child care . . . is sheer abstraction.”192 Others doubted that paternal involvement in nonmarital families would benefit mothers, and resented the state’s attempts to privatize dependence by forcing mothers either to identify their children’s fathers and seek child support from them, or to lose public assistance. Feminists such as Aleta Wallach and Patricia Tenoso challenged the premise that women and children should be dependent upon men for sustenance, insisting that mothers should be “treat[ed] . . . as an economic resource.”193 The focus on ascertaining paternity obscured alternatives, such as “adequate governmental support of all unmarried mothers and their children.”194 Increasingly aggressive measures to secure child support for poor children reduced welfare expenditures but provided paltry financial benefit to mothers. For mothers, the old nonmarital bargain of full parental rights in exchange for sole responsibility was eroding, and some feared that any expansion of nonmarital fathers’ rights would come at their expense.

In the context of marriage and divorce, feminists largely agreed on the end goal: to promote gender-egalitarian marriages and fairness at divorce. Their internal disagreement mostly concerned means: how best to achieve the legal and social changes required to transform the gendered division of family labor so that women and men alike could participate fully in breadwinning and caregiving. Feminists disagreement about unmarried parenthood arguably ran deeper, and the feminist objective was less clear where a mother and father never consented to a legal bond with one another. Should the law encourage paternal involvement in nonmarital child rearing, or merely financial responsibility? Was unmarried mothers primary responsibility for the care of their children inevitable, or malleable? What role should individual mothers preferences about paternal involvement play in decisions about a fathers rights and responsibilities? Was adoption by a two-parent family, if desired by the mother, a better outcome than giving custody to an unmarried father over the mothers objection? And to what degree should mothers be able to rely on the state for support in the absence of paternal involvement? By the mid- to late-1970s, internal feminist dissension over strategies and priorities in the fight for family equality had just begun to surface in public discourse; these disputes influenced litigation strategy in unwed fathers’ cases in ways that would only later become visible.

III. unmarried fathers vs. husbands in the supreme court, 1978-79

Stanley v. Illinois raised serious questions for established adoption law and practice.195 Most states had long allowed adoption of illegitimate children without notice to the natural father, and some read Stanley’s infamous footnote nine to require a dramatic expansion of unmarried fathers’ procedural rights.196 States scrambled to comply, implementing a patchwork of requirements reflecting the idiosyncratic regulation of parental rights generally. Almost half the states enacted statutes requiring notice only to fathers who were “either known, identified by the mother or ha[d] acknowledged the child.”197 A few states removed formal distinctions between legitimate and illegitimate children for adoption purposes, but in practice procedures developed to bypass paternal consent. In California, for example, a biological father could not object to an adoption if he did not “receive the child into his home and openly hold out the child as his natural child.”198 Adoption expert Ruth-Arlene Howe wrote that despite the initial panic and temporary halt in adoptions post-Stanley, by the end of the decade “the vast majority of states” placed on the unmarried father “the burden . . . to affirmatively assert his paternal interests in the child” to earn the right to notice and a hearing.199 Still, Stanley broke ground by giving many unmarried fathers the opportunity to have a say in their children’s future.

The prospect of enhanced rights for unmarried fathers troubled many observers. If unwed fathers, like their married or divorced counterparts, were entitled to object to their children’s adoption, then the difficulty of identifying and locating them might derail the adoption process, consigning nonmarital children not only to the stigma of illegitimacy but to the poverty and instability of life in the care of a reluctant mother or a foster home. This genuine concern for the welfare of illegitimate children also reflected the widely held assumption that adoption into a two-parent marital family was the best alternative for a child born “out of wedlock,” assuming her parents were unable or unwilling to marry each other. As the New York Court of Appeals put it in 1975, giving nonmarital fathers the right to veto an adoption meant that “the chances that such a child will have the equal rights and benefits of a home will be immeasurably diminished and the likelihood that he or she will be a pawn for the avaricious and embittered will be greatly enhanced.”200

The third-best option for nonmarital children, according to the conventional wisdom, was for their mother to marry another man willing to adopt them, thereby legitimating the children, offering them a “normal” family life, and uniting the family under a single surname. The Supreme Court tackled stepfather adoption in two cases decided at the end of the 1970s. Unlike Stanley, Wiesenfeld, and Fiallo, where mothers and fathers interests aligned, these cases involved disputes between mothers and fathers, implicating the growing tensions among feminists over the meaning of sex equality for nonmarital parenthood.

A. Not a “De Facto Divorced Father”: Rejecting Marital Status Equality in Quilloin v. Walcott (1978)

In Quilloin v. Walcott, Leon Quilloin sought to prevent the adoption of his eleven-year-old son Darrell by Randall Walcott, Darrell’s mother’s husband.201 Quilloin’s paternity was not in question, and the court gave Quilloin, unlike Peter Stanley, an opportunity to be heard regarding his request for “partial custody, in the form of visitation privileges.”202

A hearing revealed that Darrell’s mother, Ardell, gave birth to him prematurely on Christmas Day in 1964.203 He had lived for the first year of his life with his mother and maternal grandmother, and then for four years in Savannah, while his mother worked in New York.204 Quilloin testified that he had provided some financial support when Darrell was a baby, including paying for surgery to repair a hernia, and that when Darrell had lived in Savannah, the child spent about sixty percent of his time with Quilloin and Quilloin’s mother, Mabel Dawson,205 and the remainder with Ardell’s mother, Willie Mae Smith.206 Quilloin had purchased milk and clothing for Darrell, and had arranged for him to start kindergarten early at the local Catholic school.207 Quilloin recounted building a soundproof nursery in the Savannah nightclub he managed so that his son could spend time with him at work, and arranging for his employees to drive Darrell to and from school.208 Dawson testified that the two grandmothers cooperated with Darrell’s parents to take care of his needs, and that Quilloin had furnished financial support by purchasing necessities or providing funds.209

In 1969, five-year-old Darrell joined Ardell in New York, where she had a new husband and a baby son.210 In the two and a half years before the adoption hearing, Quilloin had visited Darrell in New York after a period in which the Walcotts “disappeared,” and he had paid for transportation by bus and airplane so that Darrell could visit him in Georgia.211 There was some dispute over the length and frequency of these visits, but all agreed that Quilloin had given Darrell a number of gifts, which his mother felt were “disruptive” to family harmony. Quilloin contended that he had always offered financial support for Darrell and had provided basic necessities for him when Darrell lived in Savannah.212 Quilloin “honestly believe[d] that [Darrell’s] rightful place is with his mother,” and sought only visitation.213 “I was brought up without a father,” Quilloin recalled:

[M]aybe if I had a father, you know, I [would have gone] on and finished school. . . . I’m not married, so . . . with me, he’s in a broken home more or less. I don’t have no objection to her keeping him. It’s just a matter of, it’s a little bond between the kid and myself seldom as it’s been.214

Quilloin did not seek full equality with Darrell’s mother; he simply wished to be treated, as his lawyer put it, like a “de facto divorced father.”215

The facts on Quilloin’s side were arguably stronger than the courts acknowledged: although Darrell’s parents had never lived together with him, Quilloin had spent significant time with his son.216 Darrell himself expressed a desire to continue seeing Quilloin, and to be adopted by Walcott; in a poignant exchange at the hearing, he seemed not to understand that the two might be mutually exclusive.217 Fulton County Superior Court Judge Elmo Holt acknowledged Darrell’s wishes, but ruled that Walcott’s adoption, not Quilloin’s legitimation and visitation, was in the child’s best interest.218 Quilloin argued unsuccessfully to the Georgia Supreme Court219 that the state law, which considered the mother of an unlegitimated nonmarital child220 to be “the only recognized parent,” and entitled her to consent unilaterally to the child’s adoption—violated his constitutional rights to due process and equal protection.221

Whereas adoption advocates worried that Stanley would destabilize the adoption process, civil libertarians lamented the trend toward terminating the parental rights of impoverished parents and relegating their children to adoption by more affluent parents or, worse yet, to the foster care system. In the mid-1970s, the devastating effects of child removal on Native American communities prompted the passage of the Indian Child Welfare Act. ACLU Juvenile Rights Project director Rena Uviller testified before Congress in 1977 about the “tyranny of social work in which poor families are often subjected to the imposition of standards upon them in the rearing of their children which are wholly inappropriate, to say nothing of their questionable constitutionality.”222 Yet feminists like Uviller also worried that equal rights for nonmarital fathers would undermine the autonomy of women who had borne primary or exclusive responsibility for their children.223

The tension between these two imperatives—limiting government incursions into the lives of poor families and fighting against womens subordination—came to a head when Quilloin reached the Court.224 ACLU leadership initially voted to file an amicus brief supporting Leon Quilloin, but Uviller wrote to Legal Director Bruce Ennis of dissension among the national offices legal staffers. Siding with the unmarried father was consistent with the ACLUs position on sex-based classifications, seemingly consistent with the ACLUs position on illegitimacy-based classifications, and in keeping with the view that child-parent relationships should not be permanently severed for reasons less serious than abandonment or child neglect.225 But a majority of the national office legal staff believe[d] there [were] serious feminist considerations against participating in this case:

There is concern that we ought not be arguing that adoption decisions of unmarried mothers who have borne sole responsibility for their children be subject to the veto of men who have not assumed any meaningful responsibility. Notwithstanding the rhetoric of equality, the only real advantage that women have in this society is their children and even this advantage was a hard-won feminist battle of the 19th century, since fathers had sole right to custody of their [marital] children until that time.226

Further, taking Quilloin’s side “could seriously harm the credibility of ACLU with the feminist movement.” Moreover, it could help solidify the opposition of traditional housewives to women’s rights, and give them the feeling that “women’s lib” is for professional women and against traditional women . . . thus further eroding chances of [the ERA’s] ratification.227

Ennis was torn. He believed the “civil liberties argument” on behalf of Quilloin was “extremely strong,” and that “giving fathers greater control over the adoption and placement of their children (both legitimate and illegitimate) may in fact liberate women.” Ennis reasoned: “To the extent that men accept, or are forced to accept, increased responsibility for their children . . . women will be freer to pursue other roles.”228 But he also credited the argument that “as a practical matter, because of pervasive discrimination against women, true equality is not possible at the present time, and theoretical equality between men and women . . . will in fact disadvantage women.”229 Ultimately, the “social and political consequences for women” of a victory for Quilloin were “extremely difficult to predict” and this, combined with internal dissension, counseled against the ACLU’s participation.230

It is impossible to say whether Quilloin’s claims would have fared better with the ACLU’s support. Quilloin did earn some sympathy from the Justices’ clerks. Powell clerk Jim Alt thought it “irrational to give the divorced father a voice in the adoption decision, but not the father who never married.”231 Georgia allowed nonmarital fathers to legitimate their children unilaterally,232 but, as Alt wrote, Quilloin “had no reason to go to court when, in practice, his relationship with his son was satisfactory.”233 Alt thought the Georgia Supreme Court’s equal protection ruling “extremely questionable.” He noted that “[a]ll of the same state policies could be served and the rigid mother/father distinction eliminated” if the state adopted a gender-neutral system “wherein the control over consent to adoption of an illegitimate rests with the parent ‘providing for the wants of the child.’”234

Nevertheless, Powell alone tentatively voted to reverse the lower court’s opinion upholding the statute.235 At oral argument, the Justices expressed skepticism about Quilloin’s commitment to fatherhood. They repeatedly noted the trial court’s factual finding that Quilloin had neither provided consistent financial support for Darrell nor taken the relatively simple step of filing a legitimation petition.236 Marshall’s narrowly written draft opinion won over the previously sympathetic Powell, as well as Blackmun.237

In the end, the unanimous decision upheld the Georgia adoption statute as applied to Quilloin, leaving open the possibility of future challenges.238 But the opinion dealt a blow to the argument that equal protection required similar treatment for marital and nonmarital fathers. Although Quilloin had, under Georgia law, substantially the same support obligation as a separated or divorced father, Marshall wrote, “he has never exercised actual or legal custody over his child, and thus has never shouldered any significant responsibility with respect to the daily supervision, education, protection, or care of the child.”239 By contrast, “legal custody of children” was “a central aspect of the marital relationship, and even a father whose marriage has broken apart will have borne full responsibility for the rearing of his children during the period of the marriage.”240 The state “was not foreclosed from recognizing this difference in the extent of commitment to the welfare of the child.”241 Marshall, who had been incredulous that Stanley’s lack of a marriage certificate could nullify his parental rights, now allowed the termination of Quilloin’s: whether Darrell would ever again see the man he had known as his father for eleven years would be at the Walcotts’ discretion. The Quilloin Court did not, however, pass judgment on the sex-based distinction embedded in Georgia’s statute, which allowed unmarried mothers but not fathers to veto an adoption.242 The sex discrimination question soon returned to the Court in the second stepfather adoption case, Caban v. Mohammed.

B. “Shared By Both Genders Alike”: A Qualified Triumph for Sex Neutrality in Caban v. Mohammed (1979)

Abdiel Caban, unlike Leon Quilloin, had lived with his two children and their mother, Maria, for several years, and had since married another woman, Nina.243 Even so, the New York Surrogate’s Court interpreted state law to provide that Caban could prevent Maria’s new husband, Kazim Mohammed, from adopting the children only if he could demonstrate that remaining with the Mohammeds was not in the children’s best interests.244 Caban challenged this application of the best-interests standard, arguing that it unconstitutionally elevated mothers’ rights above those of equally caring nonmarital fathers and violated his due process rights.245

Caban had stronger facts than Quilloin, and his case attracted amicus support from the ACLU,246 the Legal Aid Society,247 and Community Action for Legal Services (CALS).248 At the ACLU, Ennis noted that while the organization had “not been overly anxious to speak on this subject” in the past (clearly a reference to Quilloin), Caban “contains ideal facts,” in that the “father has had a significant relationship with his children.”249 Whereas Quilloin posed a dilemma for feminists like Uviller, Caban provided an “excellent opportunity”250 to combat the “alarming trend” toward removing children from their parents in the name of children’s “best interests,”251 in an amicus brief Uviller co-authored with parental rights advocate Martin Guggenheim.252

Profound changes in marriage patterns and gender roles undermined marital-status- and sex-based distinctions in the law of parenthood, the amici argued. Their briefs questioned the premise underlying New York’s and many other states’ statutory schemes: that adoption, when it entailed termination of a parent’s rights, was presumptively in the best interests of illegitimate children. The “cruel and undeserved out of wedlock stigma” was largely “a thing of the past,” as the CALS brief put it253: “Not only has cohabitation without marriage become more respectable, but the high divorce and remarriage rates mean that there are many children whose last name may be different from that of their remarried mother.”254 Further, the two-parent marital family so prized by advocates of stepfather adoption might be just as short-lived as the nonmarital relationship that produced the child. Conversely, as the ACLU noted, “unmarried fathers may also get married and thus be able to supply a ‘normal’ home for the children.”255 Indeed, Caban had done just that.256

Amici elaborated on the anti-sex-stereotyping arguments made in Stanley and Fiallo, citing social science literature to support their contention that many unmarried fathers played active and crucial roles in their children’s lives, while many divorced and separated fathers did not. After decisions such as Weinberger v. Wiesenfeld257 had condemned sex stereotypes, it was no longer permissible to generalize about unmarried fathers’ irresponsibility and dissolute character, amici contended. The briefs also emphasized that in other areas of family law, sex-based discrimination between fathers and mothers had receded.258 In 1973, for instance, a New York Family Court judge jettisoned the tender years presumption favoring maternal custody for young children as unconstitutionally “based on outdated social stereotypes” and a “traditional and romantic view” of “mother love.”259

Caban and his amici also made substantive due process arguments. The Legal Aid Society brief declared that

[t]he gravity of the deprivation and emotional turmoil imposed upon Mr. Caban himself cannot be overestimated. Despite the fact that he has shouldered far greater responsibilities for the care and supervision of his children than have many married, separated or divorced fathers, his familial bonds were afforded only the most cursory recognition in the adoption proceedings.260

At oral argument, Caban’s attorney Robert Silk stopped short of contending that allnatural fathers had a constitutional right to veto adoptions, but made clear that a father who had developed a significant relationship with his children (in supposed contrast to Quilloin) deserved protection from termination of his parental rights.261 Nor would it be enough, Silk argued, to satisfy equal protection by denying both nonmarital parents the right to veto an adoption, because “state power does not exist to break into the private relationships of parents and their children when there has been no showing of unfitness.”262 In other words, equality between unmarried mothers and fathers was necessary but not sufficient: nonmarital parents of both sexes had fundamental rights that the Constitution should protect.

The Justices struggled over whether their ruling in Caban should be grounded in equal protection or substantive due process. Both options entailed complications. Substantive due process might allow a decision specific to the facts, but the facts of Caban were in “sharp dispute,” as Powell clerk David Westin noted.263 Powell hesitated to paint in the broad strokes of substantive due process analysis, with Westin worrying about the potential “constitutionalization of state adoption law” and the prospect that functional definitions of parenthood would require infinitely finer distinctions among deeply contested relationships.264 White, meanwhile, insisted that his Stanley opinion was a procedural due process decision only—despite many wishful readings to the contrary.265 Stevens initially expressed willingness to rule for Caban on substantive due process grounds. Blackmun, as the author of Roe v. Wade, may have seemed positively inclined toward substantive due process, and less toward equal protection, given his vote joining the Chief Justice’s dissent in Stanley.266

A reversal on equal protection grounds also presented ideological and practical challenges. If the Court focused on the distinction between unmarried fathers and divorced fathers, finding a fundamental interest to justify heightened scrutiny would, Powell feared, put them right back in substantive due process territory, worrying about the “‘thicket’ of ‘strict scrutiny’ and ‘compelling state interest.’” Powell preferred instead to rely upon sex-based equal protection, which would allow state legislatures to decide whether to require the consent of both or neither of a child’s natural parents.267

The first draft Powell circulated to colleagues endorsed a robust sex neutrality principle. Like White’s early drafts in Stanley, it implied that virtually no distinctions between unwed mothers and fathers would pass constitutional muster. The impulse to veto a proposed adoption “is likely to be the result of a natural parental interest, shared by both genders alike; it is not a manifestation of any profound difference between the affection and concern of mothers and fathers for their children.” New York law treated married mothers and fathers equally, so why should the same provisions not apply to unmarried parents?268 Further, “[e]ven if perceived differences between maternal and paternal relations were the basis for the gender-based distinction . . . [the] classification is grounded on ‘archaic and overbroad generalizations,’ concerning the family.”269 Legislative classifications could not typecast women as exclusively occupied with home and children. “Nor may we accept uncritically the generalization . . . that mothers are closer to their children than are fathers.”270 Even “[d]uring infancy . . . one cannot invariably assume that the father’s role in his child’s life is less than that of the mother,” Powell wrote.271

This was a bridge too far for Stewart, Stevens, and Blackmun, and Powell needed at least one of their votes to make a majority. Justice Stevens worried that if the consent of both “natural” parents were required, then delay and uncertainty could discourage prospective adoptive parents and impede adoptions.272 Even if mere notice to nonmarital fathers were required, Stevens thought that publicly identifying the mother “would offend her privacy interests in the most outrageous fashion.”273 Stevens wrote privately to Powell that he was “profoundly troubled” and asked him to consider revising his opinion to “minimize its impact on the adoption of infants.”274

Powell quickly retreated. In response to Stevens’s objections, which were shared by Stewart, Powell’s second draft “altered [Caban’s] holding considerably” and “invalidate[d] the . . . statute much more narrowly,” as Blackmun’s clerk put it.275 Powell eliminated nearly all of the broad language and added caveats suggesting that the adoption of newborns presented different problems than did the adoption of older children.276 His second draft focused on case-specific facts, rather than generalizing about the constitutional infirmity of sex-based distinctions. Comfortable with Powell’s revised opinion, Blackmun announced his intention to sign, giving Powell (and Caban) a 5-4 majority.277

Stevens and Stewart dissented in Caban, emphasizing their desire to protect illegitimate children’s welfare by facilitating newborn adoptions. Stevens articulated the view of “natural differences” between mothers and fathers that would animate his—and ultimately a majority of the Court’s—treatment of nonmarital fathers’ equal protection claims for the remainder of his tenure. Unlike many if not most nonmarital fathers, a mother was identifiable, present at her child’s birth, and would have “virtually inevitable” responsibility for decisions made about an infant.278 As such, mothers and fathers of children “born out of wedlock” simply were not similarly situated, so that granting mothers and not fathers the right to consent to an adoption posed no constitutional problem. More than the majority opinion, Stevens’s dissent in Caban presaged the Court’s subsequent posture toward nonmarital fathers’ claims.

C. “Not Similarly Situated”: Rejecting Sex Equality in Parham v. Hughes (1979)

Caban marked the zenith of nonmarital fathers’ constitutional rights in the Supreme Court. Another 5-4 decision issued on the same day underscored the divisions among the Justices about the meaning of sex equality for nonmarital parents. When an automobile accident killed six-year-old Lemuel Parham and his mother, Cassandra Moreen, the boy’s father sued for his son’s wrongful death. Curtis Parham did not live with Lemuel and his mother, but averred that he had supported Lemuel financially, visited him daily, and taken care of him on many weekends. Parham had signed his son’s birth certificate but had not completed legitimation paperwork.279

Parham v. Hughes presented a question virtually identical to the one decided a decade earlier in Glona v. American Guarantee & Liability Insurance Co: could a state bar a parent from recovering for the wrongful death of an illegitimate child? The difference between Glona and Parham proved determinative, however: Minnie Brade Glona, who lost her son Tommy to a negligent driver, was a mother, and her claim succeeded before the Warren Court in 1968.280 In Parham, Stewart wrote for a plurality that the Georgia law allowing mothers but not fathers to bring a wrongful death action for an illegitimate child did not offend the constitutional principle of sex equality. “The fact is,” Stewart wrote, “that mothers and fathers of illegitimate children are not similarly situated.”281 In Georgia, only fathers could, “by voluntary unilateral action,” legitimate a child, and, unlike a mother’s, a father’s identity might be unknown.282 Excluding fathers of illegitimate children from wrongful death recovery “does not discriminate against fathers as a class but instead distinguishes between fathers who have legitimated their children and those who have not.”283

A majority of the Parham Court did see the Georgia law as distinguishing on the basis of sex, and therefore applied heightened scrutiny, but only four Justices voted for invalidation. Powell, author of Caban, concurred, finding the statute substantially related to the important governmental objective of “avoiding difficult problems in proving paternity after the death of an illegitimate child.”284 Four dissenters, including Blackmun, saw the law as unconstitutional sex discrimination.285 Although Parham did not involve the parental rights of unmarried fathers, it suggested that plaintiffs in future cases might find it difficult to frame legal distinctions between nonmarital fathers and mothers as impermissibly discriminatory.

Moreover, Parham, like Fiallo, rejected fathers’ sex discrimination claims precisely when fathers’ and mothers’ interests in sex neutrality most converged. In these cases, granting superior rights to mothers reinforced the assumption that paternal involvement in the lives of nonmarital children was worth less than maternal bonds, no matter how well the father had nurtured and loved his child. Depriving fathers and their nonmarital children of reciprocal citizenship rights and denying nonmarital fathers the right to sue for the wrongful death of their children offered no benefit to mothers; indeed, these decisions perpetuated mothers’ burden for the primary care of nonmarital children by devaluing fathers’ contributions.

To be fair, the Justices did not yet have before them a full-throated feminist argument for recognizing nonmarital fathers’ rights in contexts where men’s and women’s interests converged. In the 1970s, feminist disagreement over the relationship between sex equality and nonmarital parenthood played out mostly behind the scenes, in internal debates within the ACLU rather than in dueling briefs in the Supreme Court. The ACLU’s legal director rejected Ginsburg’s proposal to file an amicus brief in Fiallo, and the petitioners’ brief relegated to a footnote the feminist argument that women are harmed by the sex-stereotyping of nonmarital fathers. The fathers who defied such stereotypes, whom the Court presumed were a small minority, suffered the primary harm of the sex discrimination left intact by the unwed fathers cases. In Caban, the only successful case of the three, amicus briefs focused on harm to fathers and to children, reflecting their authors’ primary concern with unjust terminations of parental rights generally. In Parham, the plaintiff had no amicus support.

The juxtaposition of Fiallo, Caban, and Parham highlights how, paradoxically, nonmarital fathers’ sex discrimination arguments fared better when fathers faced off against mothers than when mothers, too, stood to gain from a sex-neutral rule. And the paradoxes did not end there. In the 1970s, feminist disputes over nonmarital fathers’ rights never made their way into amicus briefs or otherwise influenced the Justices’ deliberations in cases before the Court. Nevertheless, the Court decided Fiallo, Caban, and Parham on sex-based equal protection grounds. In the 1980s, by contrast, feminist arguments played a key role in two of the nonmarital fathers cases that came before the Court, but the Justices dodged them and instead decided two other cases primarily on due process grounds. Although the Court for the first time heard full-throated feminist arguments for and against nonmarital fathers’ parental rights, the Justices sidestepped questions of sex equality altogether and reaffirmed the state’s prerogative to privilege marital families at nonmarital fathers’ expense.

IV. avoiding equality: feminism and fatherhood in the supreme court, 1980-89

Feminist legal advocacy in the 1970s and 1980s often suffered from inauspicious timing. Feminists reasoned from race on the eve of civil rights retrenchment, turning what seemed like fruitful analogies in the Warren Court era into political and legal constraints before the Burger Court.286 They sought more expansive affirmative action and disparate impact doctrines at a time when courts were cutting back these remedies in the context of race.287 They presented compelling arguments that illegitimacy penalties subordinated women after the Court articulated the primary harm of illegitimacy-based classifications as their detrimental impact on “hapless” and innocent children.288

Feminist advocacy in the unwed fathers’ cases suffered from a similar temporal disconnect: by the time the feminist dilemma was squarely before the Justices, with clearly articulated positions on both sides of the question, the Court had both drawn its battle lines on other terms and moved further to the right. Both of these developments likely made the Justices less receptive to framing the unwed fathers’ cases in terms of substantive sex equality than they might have been. Section IV.A. explains why the feminist dilemma came to the fore in the 1980s, briefly outlining the legal and political factors that heightened feminist disagreement over sex equality in nonmarital parenthood. Sections IV.B. and IV.C. juxtapose the two unwed fathers cases decided by the Court during this period with two other cases the Court dodged, revealing both the contours of the feminist dilemma and the consequences of its submergence in equality jurisprudence.

A. Parenthood After the Sex Equality Revolution

Developments in the late 1970s and early 1980s intensified debate among feminists over the rights of nonmarital fathers. The divorced-fathers’ rights movement enjoyed relatively rapid success in winning legislative and judicial decisions approving joint custody. Sociologists exposed the economic devastation of divorce for women and children. Litigation defeats, the failure to achieve ratification of the ERA, and the ascendancy of conservatism in national politics prompted feminists to examine the shortcomings of 1970s feminist legal advocacy and to assess the future of sex equality.

The late 1970s and early 1980s witnessed profound changes in child custody law.289 The maternal preference continued to erode and joint custody gained ground in many states, thanks to an uneasy coalition between feminists and divorced-fathers’ rights activists, as Deborah Dinner has recounted.290 For feminists, joint custody held the promise of relieving divorced mothers of sole responsibility for childcare, undermining stereotypes about motherhood as women’s primary destiny, and, ideally, creating incentives for fathers to spend more time caring for children during marriage.291 For fathers’ rights activists, joint custody was an essential element of the new “divorce bargain,” in which fathers received custody rights in exchange for fulfilling child support obligations. As Dinner describes, fathers’ rights activists and feminists not only favored joint custody for different reasons, they often diverged in their policy prescriptions.292 In debates over joint custody in California, a bellwether state for family law innovations, fathers’ rights activists fought for a categorical presumption of joint custody, while feminists who favored the presumption did so only when both parents wished to share custody. Without this caveat, feminists feared, joint custody presumptions would devalue women’s disproportionate responsibility for caregiving during marriage and reduce their bargaining power at divorce, harming women and children.293

At the same time, feminists who had long worried about the economic impact of no-fault divorce and marital breakdown on women saw their worst fears confirmed. The “feminization of poverty” became a shorthand to describe the rise of female-headed households born of rising rates of divorce and nonmarital childbirth. Sociologist Lenore Weitzman spotlighted a chasm between the economic fortunes of divorced men and women.294 While the magnitude of post-divorce inequality remained in dispute, its existence did not, and some feminists identified formal sex neutrality as the culprit. Reforms that treated divorcing husbands and wives as if they were interchangeable spouses in a presumptively egalitarian partnership could not produce substantive equality of results, wrote feminist legal scholar Martha Fineman in 1983.295 Fineman argued that women’s socioeconomic disadvantage meant that, “at least for the foreseeable future, genuine reform can only be achieved through a rational, but potentially unequal, division of economic assets between husbands and wives at divorce.”296 Treating men and women as equals under the law exacerbated women’s inferior status so long as women shouldered the lion’s share of domestic and caregiving responsibilities and faced widespread discrimination in the labor market.

Critical feminists also turned their gaze to child custody, arguing that the rise of ostensibly gender-neutral rules devalued mothers’ caregiving labor and held fathers to a “different, much less demanding standard.”297 Some feminists sought to balance the benefits of legal sex neutrality with a revaluation of women’s care work. Nancy Polikoff, writing in 1982, defended a “primary caretaker” presumption for child custody decision making, arguing that this “sex-neutral standard” would protect mothers and children in the vast majority of cases where women served as primary caretakers. It would also allow fathers to benefit from the presumption if they provided “primary nurturance and care during the ongoing marriage.”298

Many feminists reevaluated their legal priorities in the early 1980s. The ERA’s defeat and the Reagan Administration’s threatened cutbacks in civil rights and social spending surfaced disagreements regarding the past and future of feminist legal advocacy. Fear of undermining the ERA’s ratification chances had constrained some advocates in their legal arguments and others in their willingness to dissent publicly from expedient political positions. At the same time, a new generation of feminists enjoyed greater access to the legal academy, publishing scholarship critical of judicial decisions that limited sex equality, and sometimes of the feminist legal strategies that helped produce them. Rather than inspiring caution or quiescence, the ERA’s defeat and the conservative ascendancy liberated feminists to own publicly more expansive definitions of sex equality.299 These setbacks also emboldened feminists to air their disagreements about substance and strategy.

The feminist disagreement that had simmered beneath the surface in the early nonmarital fathers cases burst into the open in the 1980s before a Supreme Court that included Sandra Day O’Connor, the first female Justice. Between 1982 and 1988, two cases reached the Court that explicitly presented what one advocate termed the “feminist dilemma”: how to balance the desire to overcome women’s default responsibility for nonmarital children with concerns that the realities of gender inequality rendered legal sex neutrality antithetical to women’s autonomy and to substantive sex equality. In Kirkpatrick v. Christian Homes of Abilene and McNamara v. San Diego Department of Social Services, feminists on both sides of the debate made their case to the Justices. But the Court sidestepped the sex equality question—and the cases themselves—entirely, and framed the two unmarried fathers’ cases it did decide, Lehr v. Robertson and Michael H. v. Gerald D., as due process disputes in which husbands prevailed over fathers. The winner in all of these cases, it would seem, was marital supremacy.

1. “The Feminist Dilemma”: Unwed Mothers Against Sex Neutrality in Kirkpatrick v. Christian Homes of Abilene

Kirkpatrick was the first case to present the Court with a feminist argument against sex neutrality in nonmarital parental rights. In a small Nebraska town, Donald Kirkpatrick and Laura S. began an intimate relationship when he was 22 and she was 14.300 At 15, Laura became pregnant, and decided, in consultation with her parents, to place the child for adoption.301 An adoptee herself, Laura had great concern for the stigma attached to a child born out of wedlock in a small town.302 She did what many white girls had done for generations: entered a home for unwed mothers (in Texas), and remained there until she gave birth.303

When Laura informed him of the pregnancy, Kirkpatrick proposed marriage, but Laura declined.304 In Texas, biological fathers were entitled to receive notice of adoption proceedings, but could not veto an adoption and take custody of an unlegitimated child unless a court agreed that legitimation was in the childs best interests.305 The trial court denied Kirkpatricks legitimation petition and placed the infant in foster care pending appeal.306 The state appellate court affirmed. We are not nearly so far down the road to unrestrained egalitarianism as to hold that the Constitution guarantees an unwed father parental rights in violation of the best interests of the child, the Texas Supreme Court had proclaimed in 1976.307 Four years later, over the dissent of three Justices, the same court explained:

While the mother who is unmarried and pregnant is trying to figure out what she will do with the child, the father is totally free from any responsibility . . . . To classify him as a parent simply because he is a biological father would give him a powerful club with which he could substantially reduce the options available to the unmarried mother.308

As for the wide gulf between the rights of married and unmarried fathers, there was “a rational basis for the State to distinguish” between “a sperm donor, a rapist, a ‘hit and run’ lover, an adulterer and the like” and “the father who has accepted the legal and moral commitment to the family.”309

Supporters said Kirkpatrick was a responsible, upstanding young man devoted to his daughter and eager to marry her mother; detractors claimed he was an irreligious statutory rapist with inconstant paternal instincts who planned to turn the child over to the care of his female relatives.310 Both characterizations enjoyed some support in the record. Laura testified that Kirkpatrick was a wonderful man, but that at 15, she was not ready to marry and start a family, and she wanted her daughter raised by two Christian parents.311

After an apparently bitter internal dispute,312 the national ACLU agreed to represent Kirkpatrick before the U.S. Supreme Court.313 The ACLU argued that substantive due process and equal protection required that unmarried fathers be permitted to legitimate their children over the mothers objection, veto an adoption, and obtain custody unless they were proven unfit. The Court should, the ACLU argued, declare the best-interests standard unconstitutionally vague, at least with respect to terminations of parental rights.314 And the Texas statute was freighted with the baggage of sexual stereotypes so often condemned by this Court.315 The injury to caring fathers was patent.316 “Less obvious but equally invidious” was “the harm done to women,” who were “inevitably locked into the childcare role, unable to share childrearing responsibilities equally with men.”317

Before Kirkpatrick, the interests of unmarried mothers had been in the background, as in the ACLUs decision not to intervene in Quilloin, but never at the forefront. Kirkpatrick was different. Feminist attorney Nancy Erickson authored an amicus brief on behalf of unwed mothers who opposed unmarried fathers asserted right to veto an adoption and obtain custody for themselves.318 She quoted unmarried mothers who said they would not have pursued adoption if it meant that the father might gain custody. Instead, these mothers might have felt pressured to have an abortion or to raise an unwanted child, Erickson asserted, violating their right to privacy and decisional autonomy and flouting the childs best interests. Mothers should also have the right to give up their children for adoption anonymously, Erickson argued, and men should not be allowed to use their sexual partners as involuntary surrogate mothers.319

Erickson denied that the Texas statutory scheme reflected an impermissible gender bias320 or promoted sexual stereotypes that portray men as incapable of good parenting.321 Kirkpatrick himself seemed to assume that various female relatives—his mother, sister, or grandmother—would care for the baby if he were to obtain parental rights and custody.322 Most recently, Kirkpatrick had married a full-time homemaker who allegedly was eager to raise the child, leading Erickson to observe that awarding custody to a man who did not intend to assume a caregiving role hardly served feminist objectives.323 Feminists like Erickson embraced the goal of greater paternal involvement in the care of children, but they worried about the effects of formal equality on unequal social circumstances. Our desires, as feminists, to see men assume the parental duties that in the past they have abandoned to women should not prevent us from recognizing that a legal rule granting an unwed father exactly the same rights as an unwed mother could lead to extreme oppression of women, Erickson wrote.324

Blackmun clerk Cory Streisinger thought that Kirkpatrick had a serious claim of gender-based discrimination, and advised Blackmun to support granting certiorari.325 At first only White and Blackmun voted to grant, but Whites draft dissent apparently persuaded Burger and Brennan to change their votes.326 White expressed qualms about the Texas statutory scheme on both due process and equal protection grounds.327 He reminded his colleagues that earlier Court decisions had strongly implied that a state could not, constitutionally, terminate a natural parents rights without a showing of parental unfitness.328 Significantly, White also believed that Kirkpatrick had a weighty equal protection claim that the challenged laws are based simply on the sexual stereotype that women can be more trusted with children than men.329 Kirkpatricks argument is not without force, White wrote.330At the least, there is sufficient doubt to merit this Courts attention.331 All in all, he concluded, The importance of these issues to many unwed fathers and their children can hardly be overstated.”332

Despite the evident interest of at least four of its members who voted to grant certiorari, the Court sidestepped the thorny issues presented in Kirkpatrick by remanding on a state law question.333Kirkpatrick provided an unprecedented—and ultimately missed—opportunity for the Court to grapple with explicitly feminist arguments for and against nonmarital fathers parental rights.334 In a second case, McNamara v. San Diego Department of Social Services,335 the ACLU seized the chance to elaborate on the feminist argument for sex neutrality.

2. The ACLU Fights for Sex Neutrality in McNamara v. San Diego Department of Social Services

Edward McNamara, a thirty-four-year-old carpenter, part-time salesman, and divorced father of two, had a brief sexual relationship with a nineteen-year-old woman in the fall of 1980.336 The two lost touch, and McNamara did not know he had fathered a baby girl until, over dinner two weeks after her birth in the summer of 1981, her mother asked him to relinquish his parental rights.337 McNamara initially requested that the baby be placed with a childless couple from his church who sometimes looked after his sons, but the mother preferred adoption by a family who knew neither biological parent.338 After spending half an hour holding his weeks-old daughter, McNamara later recalled, he requested custody. I decided I wanted her, and could raise her . . . . And I informed the county that I wanted her, and I was not going to agree to the relinquishment.339

But it was too late. The Department of Social Welfare placed Katie with a foster family over McNamaras objections,340 and a protracted legal battle followed. When Katie was just five months old, a California trial court ruled against McNamara, declaring that it was in Katies best interests to remain with Pamela and Robert Moses, the foster parents who sought to adopt her.341 In 1984, the California Supreme Court reversed and remanded, holding that custody should not be awarded to a nonparent unless parental custody would be detrimental to the child.342 But when the case went back to the trial court, Katie was three and a half years old and had lived with the Moses family almost since birth. The judge found that a change of custody under these circumstances would be detrimental, terminated McNamaras parental rights, and granted the adoption petition.343 McNamara appealed again, to no avail.344

When the U.S. Supreme Court agreed to hear McNamaras appeal, he was still seeking custody of Katie, who was seven years old and had seen McNamara only once or twice, as an infant. The prospect of removing Katie from the only home she had ever known made McNamara, as Isabelle Katz Pinzler of the ACLU Womens Rights Project put it, the perfect example of hard cases make bad law.’”345 An early draft of the ACLUs amicus brief opened with a plea for the Court to dismiss the case for want of a substantial federal question and strategically avoided the equal protection issue.346

A few weeks later, Pinzler and her colleagues learned, to their relief, that McNamara was no longer seeking custody of Katie but merely visitation rights. This decision transformed the ACLUs brief into a full-throated argument for sex neutrality. Unlike Caban and Lehr, McNamara did not seek to limit the rights of Katies natural mother.347 Instead, McNamara challenged the right of the State to sever his parent-child relationship on grounds which patently discriminate on the basis of sex.348 Unmarried mothers parental rights could not be severed absent their consent or a showing of unfitness or abandonment, whereas an unmarried father who had no opportunity to develop a relationship with his child could have his rights terminated under a much less stringent best interests or detriment standard.349 This, the ACLU argued, was sex discrimination pure and simple.

The ACLUs McNamara brief articulated the strongest version yet of the feminist argument for sex neutrality in parental rights. The only respect in which the interests of mothers and fathers are profoundly and inherently different, the brief declared, concerned a womans fundamental right . . . to terminate a pregnancy.350 After a child is born, no reason exists, outside of social custom and stereotyped notions of the proper roles for women and men, to support a gender based distinction in parental rights and obligations.351 Echoing Ginsburgs arguments of the preceding decade,352 the brief contended that women, men, and children all suffered harm when the State presumed that either gender has a monopoly on nurturance, love, concern, or the willingness to support and care for children.353 Channeling Sylvia Laws position in a classic 1984 article, the ACLU called gender-differentiated parental rights a self-fulfilling prophecy. Law had written: Although sex-based classifications are unjust in relation to individuals . . . who do not fit the stereotypes . . . the primary constitutional infirmity in such classifications is not that they are inaccurate, but rather that they are self-fulfilling.354 The ACLU brief noted: An official presumption that unwed fathers are uninterested . . . can surely help to create or perpetuate such a result.355 Now that nonmarital fathers could be compelled to support their biological children financially, to deprive them of rights risked contribut[ing] to the anger and resentment of some fathers and causing them, however unjustifiably, to shirk both childcare and financial responsibilities.356

The ACLUs brief in McNamara went further than any previous submission to the Court in arguing that womens welfare ultimately was best served by recognizing greater rights for nonmarital fathers. More common was the view expressed by Norah Whiting in a letter to the Washington Post: It is a hard fact to face, she wrote, but if we mothers honestly want (as we say we do) a society filled with men who are committed, involved fathers, we cannot also demand that men who are fathers simply disappear quietly whenever their presence proves inconvenient for us.357 Others disagreed. Of the California Supreme Court decision requiring that custody be given to a willing father unless “detrimental” to the child, adoption lawyer David Keene Leavitt declared, “The mother can abort it; she can kill the fetus. But if she wants to bear it to term, she needs the permission of the fellow who got her pregnant before she can put it up for adoption. It’s a nightmare for women.”358Syndicated columnist Ellen Goodman took a more balanced approach, arguing that an unwed fathers rights should be calibrated in terms of his commitment. Theres a vast difference between the father who has lived with his children, and the one who has deserted them.359 But in McNamara, neither the mother nor the California law ever gave Ed McNamara the chance to act like a father.360

Once again, the Court declined to pass judgment on the relationship between sex equality and parental rights. OConnor clerk Sharon Beckman judged the equal protection issue insubstantial, and maintained that, in any event, it was neither raised nor decided below.361 Blackmun clerk Kevin Kearney agreed that the equal protection issue was not properly presented and that on the merits the claim is not strong, as there are reasons for the state to treat the mothers of newborns differently [from] fathers.362 He wrote to the Justice: My strongest impression is that this case should not be here, and that its ultimate resolution, unless it is dismissed, will be messy.363 At oral argument, several justices challenged McNamaras lawyer to point to a place in the court record where the issue of equal protection was raised. When you find it, say Bingo!”’ snapped Justice Antonin Scalia.364 Justice OConnor also reportedly voiced skepticism about why someone who engages in a so-called one-night stand would have a constitutional right to control the fate of the child who accidentally results from the affair.365 In an anticlimactic conclusion to a seven-year court battle, a majority of the Court voted to dismiss McNamara for want of a properly presented federal question.366

B. Unwed Fathers vs. Husbands in the Supreme Court, Redux

The direct involvement of feminists in Kirkpatrick and McNamara framed these cases as centrally concerned with questions of sex equality in nonmarital parenthood, but the Court decided neither on the merits. The two unwed fathers’ cases that the Court did decide in the 1980s, Lehr v. Robertson367 and Michael H. v. Gerald D.,368 included sex-based equal protection claims as well, but like the 1970s cases did not bear overt hallmarks of feminist intervention, and rendered mothers largely invisible. Lehr and especially Michael H. resoundingly rejected marital status equality for fathers and submerged almost entirely the sex equality questions simultaneously and starkly presented to the Court in Kirkpatrick and McNamara.

1. “A Bias in Favor of the Formal Family”: Lehr v. Robertson (1983)

Jonathan Lehr and Lorraine Martz met after Lorraine’s father was killed in Vietnam and Jonathan’s mother, Helen, took the troubled teenage girl, estranged from her mother and stepfather, under her wing.369 Jonathan and Lorraine became intimately involved and lived together sporadically along with Lorraine’s daughter from a previous relationship, Renee.370 Their daughter Jessica was born in 1976, and the couple was at one point engaged.371 Lehr visited Lorraine and Jessica in the hospital after the birth but did not accede to Lorraine’s request that they marry.372

What happened next was the subject of vigorous dispute. Lehr maintained that he did everything in his power to ascertain Lorraine’s whereabouts when she moved with her children to another part of New York State and then married Richard Robertson.373 Lorraine insisted that Lehr showed no interest in Jessica until Richard commenced adoption proceedings, though Lehr visited with Renee on several occasions after Jessica’s birth.374 In any event, Lehr filed a petition to establish paternity in late January 1979.375 However, filing a paternity suit was not one of the seven circumstances that entitled a putative father to notice and a hearing in adoption proceedings under New York’s post-Stanley statutory scheme. Though all parties—including the judge—were aware of Lehr’s paternity suit, the court approved Richard’s adoption of Jessica, effectively foreclosing Lehr’s parental rights.376

The judge’s apparent eagerness to finalize the adoption despite knowing that Lehr had petitioned for paternity disturbed several of the Justices.377 But after passing on the first round of voting at conference, both Burger and Brennan voted to affirm the New York Court of Appeals decision upholding the adoption.378 Burger assigned the majority opinion to Stevens, a dissenter in Caban. Stevens’s first draft was, according to Justice Powell, “a mish-mash of an opinion. Can’t believe JPS wrote it.”379 As law clerk Rives Kistler wrote to Powell, the first part of Stevens’s opinion “refocus[ed] the constitutional inquiry,” characterizing precedents such as Stanley, Quilloin, Caban, and the illegitimacy cases in ways that “give only grudging approval to the Court’s cases that recognize constitutional protection for non-traditional family relationships.”380 Stevens explicitly endorsed “formal family” and recognized family relationships as superior, citing and quoting at length a recent article by Bruce Hafen, a prominent conservative law professor and Mormon leader.381

As Hafen interpreted recent jurisprudence, the Court had not effected a revolutionary change in the laws of reproduction and the family in the 1970s.382 Despite easing some of the legal burdens imposed on nonmarital children and their parents, legalizing contraception and abortion, and removing many overtly sex-based classifications from the law, the Justices—even at their most liberal and expansive—had never dethroned the marital family or formal family relationships.383 Despite much wishful and creative thinking by liberal constitutional lawyers and scholars (and a few lower court judges), “marriage and kinship are still the touchstones of constitutional adjudication in family-related cases, Hafen concluded.384The Court has limited some traditional policies, but has done so only in an effort to remedy exceptional inequities.385 And critically, [e]ven the exceptional cases have been treated in such a way that constitutional protection has not been extended to relationships between unmarried adults.386

Stevenss majority opinion in Lehr seemed to ratify Hafens account, even after Stevens removed the long quotations from Hafens article. Stevens wrote to Brennan:

I know the [Hafen] article as a whole exhibits a bias in favor of the formal family, but I do not believe that bias is any stronger than the stance the Court has taken in several opinions. I really think all of us would agree with each of the statements that Hafen makes in what I have quoted.387

Stevens added, “I would rather have your vote than Mr. Hafen’s quotation but wonder how strongly you feel about it.”388 Brennan eventually withdrew his objection to the longer Hafen quotation, but Stevens left it out after Powell registered his discomfort as well.389 Still, the final opinion privileged the “formal family” and “recognized family unit.”390

Removing the extended homage to Hafen was not the only revision Stevens made to assuage his colleagues concerns. Justice OConnor expressed qualms about the treatment of the sex-based equal protection issue. Stevens had written in an early draft:

Before birth, the mother carries the child; it is she who has the constitutional right to decide whether to bear it or not. And from the moment the child is born, the mother always has a relationship of legal responsibility toward the child. Because the natural father of an illegitimate child can often be legally and practically anonymous if he chooses, responsibility does not devolve upon him in the same automatic fashion.391

OConnor found this discussion disturbing.392 She agree[d] that, as a practical matter, it is easier for the natural father of an illegitimate child to evade legal responsibility because of his anonymity.393 She continued:

I recognize that the clause ‘responsibility does not devolve upon him in the same automatic fashion’ is probably intended to be descriptive only. Nevertheless, the language contains connotations of approval of a scheme that imposes less legal responsibility on the natural father, and I would prefer to avoid any implication of that kind.394

O’Connor thought “this generic discussion of the difference between natural mothers and natural fathers [was] not necessary” to dispense with Lehr’s equal protection challenge.395 Instead, she urged Stevens to rely on Quilloin and on Lehr’s lack of a “substantial relationship” with his daughter.396 Stevens revised the draft accordingly.397 O’Connor’s intervention appears to have been the first time a Justice expressed concern about the detrimental effect on women of basing superior parental rights on the assumption of weightier maternal responsibilities.

In the end, none of the Justices disputed the majoritys ruling that unmarried mothers and fathers could be treated differently in adoption proceedings so long as the father had not formed a significant relationship with his biological child and the mother had.398 The majority and dissenters White, Marshall, and Blackmun disagreed over a different question: whether, given Lehrs efforts to form such a relationship—including the filing of a paternity petition—the strict application of the statutes requirements violated due process.

Lehr somewhat cryptically confirmed that marital status was a legitimate basis for sex-differentiated treatment of parental rights and responsibilities. The briefing in Lehr addressed the sex-based equal protection question, with Lehr and his supporters arguing that to give notice and a hearing to all unwed mothers but only a select category of unwed fathers violated the principles articulated in Stanley, Caban, and the Courts constitutional sex equality jurisprudence.399 Opponents argued that cases such as Parham had established the constitutionality of distinguishing between unmarried mothers, whose identity could easily be established at birth, and unmarried fathers, whose parentage often was shrouded in ambiguity.400 Justice OConnors intervention saved the Lehr opinion from incorporating what she viewed as damaging assumptions about mothers inevitable responsibility for nonmarital children, but Whites dissent avoided the sex-based equal protection question altogether.401 In denying even the most basic procedural rights to Lehr, the Court appeared to retreat from its earlier precedents.402 And Reagans next appointments to the Court would not bode well for nonmarital fathers rights.

2. Affirming Marital Supremacy, Avoiding Equality: Michael H. v. Gerald D. (1989)

By the time the Supreme Court heard McNamara and Michael H. at the end of the 1980s, William Rehnquist, its most conservative member, had become Chief Justice, replacing Warren Burger. Conservative D.C. Circuit Judge Antonin Scalia had taken Rehnquists seat as an Associate Justice. And, after a bruising and ultimately unsuccessful battle over the confirmation of conservative scholar and former Solicitor General Robert Bork, Ninth Circuit Judge Anthony Kennedy had replaced Lewis Powell, a swing voter in earlier nonmarital father cases. These appointments solidified the rightward shift that commenced with Nixons appointments of Burger, Powell, and Rehnquist in the late 1960s and early 1970s.

Having dodged McNamara, the Court decided Michael H. v. Gerald D.,403 another contest between husbands and fathers decided on due process grounds. Even more than Lehr, Michael H. buried questions of equality and almost entirely ignored the interests of women and mothers. The mother in Michael H., Carole D., had given birth to a daughter, Victoria, in May 1981.404 A fashion model married to an oil executive, Carole was involved in an extra-marital relationship with Michael H. in Los Angeles, while her husband, Gerald D., lived primarily in New York and traveled abroad on business.405 Victoria always remained with Carole, but they moved frequently between households as a series of separations and reconciliations with Michael, Gerald, and a third man followed.406

Though the parties disputed nearly everything else, Michaels paternity was not in question: blood tests had established the biological link with more than ninety-eight percent certainty.407 Soon thereafter, Michael filed an action to establish legal paternity.408 For two periods of several months—once when Victoria was an infant, and again when she was two years old—Carole, Michael, and Victoria lived as a family in California.409 Carole left Michael for good in 1984, and soon thereafter, Carole and Gerald reconciled again.410 By this time, Gerald, Carole, and Victoria were living together in New York.411 An attorney and guardian ad litem representing Victorias interests sought visitation rights for Michael.412

The psychologist who evaluated the parties in order to recommend a visitation arrangement produced a largely unflattering report, depicting Carole as child-like, with a limited capacity to be intimate or self-sacrificing to the degree which normally characterizes relationships between parents and children . . . .413 For his part, Michael allegedly exhibit[ed] virtually all of the characteristics associated with parents who engage in incestuous-type relationships, though the psychologist found no evidence of inappropriate sexual contact.414 Only Gerald, Caroles husband, seemed promising parental material,415 but the psychologist believed he was the least committed to Victorias long-term care.416 Ultimately, the psychologist recommended that Michael be afforded limited visitation, the best of what he evidently regarded as an unfortunate set of options.417

Whatever their individual strengths and shortcomings, Victoria had formed attachments to all three adults. Michael apparently had grasped the opportunity to establish a relationship with Victoria, which, under Lehr, presumably meant that he had a liberty interest earning him the right to notice and a hearing before his parental rights were terminated. But Michael H. differed from the earlier cases in one crucial respect: when Victoria was born, Carole was legally married, to Gerald. Californias century-old marital presumption, recently amended, provided only very limited circumstances under which a mothers husband would not automatically be declared the sole legal father of any child born during the marriage.418 Accordingly, the California trial court granted summary judgment to Gerald, declaring him Victorias legal father and terminating Michaels parental rights.419 In 1987, an appellate court affirmed, and the California Supreme Court denied review.420

By the time the case reached the U.S. Supreme Court, Michael H. was framed as a contest between Gerald and Michael for legal recognition as Victorias father.421 Procedural and substantive due process claims loomed large, consuming the lions share of the briefs and commentary on the case. As in earlier unwed father cases, though, it was also possible to view the challenged statute as discriminating based on sex. Michael argued that Californias statutory scheme constitutes gender-based discrimination:

Under its terms, the right of a biological mother to remain a parent is never open to question without access to a full panoply of due process protections. On the other hand, a biological father is deprived of parental rights without any determination of his fitness and precluded from ever asserting his parental rights notwithstanding his established relationship with the child.422

Gerald contended that Michael was simply wrong. . . . [T]he mother’s right to dispute the presumption is coextensive with the putative father’s.”423 Even assuming a gender-based distinction, Gerald argued that the statute bore a substantial relationship to the states interest of assuring parentage for the child and protecting the family into which the child is born.424 An amicus brief filed by the ACLU sidestepped the equal protection question, and instead pressed the argument that to sever the bond between Michael and Victoria violated Michael’s fundamental right to maintain an established parent-child relationship.425

In the end, the Court addressed only Michaels due process claim, dealing him a resounding defeat. The plurality opinion, authored by Justice Scalia, exuded barely veiled disdain for Michaels claim and for the complicated family situation that produced it.426 Scalia scoffed at the notion that a biological father could invoke constitutional protection for his relationship to a child conceived in an adulterous affair when his parenthood would intrude upon the harmony of an intact marital family.427 In his concurrence, Stevens agreed with the dissenters that Michaels biological and relational connection to Victoria earned him the right to notice and a hearing, but concluded that Michael had such an opportunity.428 The dissenters expressed dismay at what they perceived as a stunning retreat from the principles that animated Stanley, Caban, and even Lehr, where the Court had emphasized that a biological tie plus an established relationship sufficed to create a protected liberty interest.429 The only mention of Michaels equal protection claim came in the pluralitys brief note that it was neither raised nor passed upon below.430 Michael H. seemed, therefore, to stand primarily for the Courts endorsement of marital supremacy, and for a cramped conception of due process rights more generally.

Capping almost two decades of debate over their proper scope and constitutional pedigree, Michael H. stands as the Supreme Courts final word on the parental rights of nonmarital fathers. A question originally framed as discrimination based on sex and marital status had become a battle over the process due to nonmarital fathers threatened with termination of their parental rights. From the beginning, some of the Justices had considered an equality framing: early drafts of the majority opinions in Stanley and Caban endorsed a robust rule of formal sex neutrality in nonmarital parental rights and rejected unflattering generalizations about unmarried fathers as dissolute, irresponsible, and uncaring. But this unqualified version of nonmarital sex neutrality never garnered enough support to prevail. Nor were the Justices—even those most sympathetic to nonmarital families plight, even in the heyday of nonmarital fathers rights—ever prepared to embrace full equality for marital and nonmarital fathers. In short, though nonmarital fathers achieved some due process protections, they never won a constitutional guarantee of equal treatment based on sex and marital status. And the Court never directly engaged with the fundamental question that divided feminists: when does legal sex neutrality serve substantive sex equality? However one believes those questions should be answered, the consequences of avoiding them have implications beyond the unwed fathers parental rights cases.

V. divergences: nonmarital parenthood in the age of equality

When Peter Stanley brought the first unwed father case to the Supreme Court in 1971, he posed novel questions of sex and marital status discrimination to a nation engulfed in cultural and constitutional change. Though nonmarital fathers won unprecedented due process rights in the decades that followed, they remained in many ways in a class by themselves. Unlike many other groups that claimed constitutional rights in the Supreme Court, unwed fathers did not have the support of established organizations or mobilized social movements who represented their particular interests. Instead, various groups and interests fought for their own causes on the battleground of nonmarital fatherhood. Social movements left their mark on the constitutional treatment of nonmarital fathers, but not in the usual way.

This Part examines the causes and consequences of nonmarital fathers’ failed pursuit of constitutional parity with mothers and marital fathers. Section V.A considers nonmarital fathers’ unsuccessful quest to be treated as “de facto divorced fathers” and suggests reasons for this failure. Section V.B examines the divergence between Justices’ and feminists’ concerns in the debate over unwed fathers’ rights. This divergence had significant ramifications for constitutional equality law, and for the relationship between sex equality and marital supremacy, as Section V.C. explains.

A. Nonmarital Fathers vs. Divorced Fathers

Between the 1960s, when nonmarital fathers began to attract the attention of legal and social work professionals, and the 1980s, when the Supreme Court last considered nonmarital fathers’ parental rights, sex neutrality became the rule in the law of divorce. This transformation began in the early 1970s, as feminists and divorced fathers’ rights activists—for somewhat different reasons—began to advocate for the abandonment of maternal custody preferences, and continued through the 1970s and 1980s as joint custody and paternal involvement gained ground. Divorced fathers won greater access to their children, in part through arguments for equal treatment and against mothers’ inherently superior parenting ability. Nonmarital childbearing became more common and less stigmatized. As a result, singling out nonmarital fathers for inferior parental rights seemed increasingly anomalous.

Even before the sex equality revolution, nonmarital fathers could cite the 1965 case Armstrong v. Manzo,431 where the Court had recognized a divorced father’s procedural right to notice and a hearing in an adoption proceeding. In Stanley, the Center on Social Welfare Policy and Law’s amicus brief noted that Manzo was “almost directly on point.”432 In Quilloin, Justice Marshall framed the equal protection question as whether “the state was required to treat [Quilloin] the same as a divorced father.”433 Quilloin’s attorney called his client a “de facto divorced father. . . . He has done everything as far as a nurturing instinct is concerned that a normal divorced father would.”434 But Quilloin could not overcome the trial court’s apparent finding that he had neither legitimated his son nor provided consistent financial support. Marshall’s opinion for the unanimous Court affirmed the validity of distinctions between divorced and never-married fathers, at least in cases where the father had “never shouldered any significant responsibility” for the child.435

Advocates for nonmarital fathers continued to press the divorced father analogy in Caban, Lehr, and Michael H. In Caban, for instance, the Legal Aid Society’s amicus brief highlighted

the juxtaposition of Mr. Caban’s plight with the status of a divorced father who has had no contact whatsoever with his children. Regardless of the duration of the marriage, the amount of support provided, or indeed, whether the divorced father had even been made aware of the birth of the child, the child of such a father could not be adopted [without the father’s consent under New York law].436

In Michael H., the parallel between nonmarital and divorced fathers seemed especially strong: like many divorced fathers, Michael had maintained a relationship with his daughter through court-ordered visitation during the times when he was estranged from her mother.437 As Michael Hirschensohn (the plaintiff in Michael H.) told the Los Angeles Times in 1987, “I lived with the woman I loved, we split up and I think I’m entitled to see my daughter. I’m not asking to be treated other than [as] a divorced father.”438

Nonmarital fathers’ efforts to highlight their similarities to divorced fathers belied crucial differences, however. One key distinction was unmarried fathers’ relative lack of organization. Like feminists, divorced fathers had mobilized as a movement by the 1970s, though they did so primarily at the state and local rather than national level.439 Fathers’ rights activists had developed and published critiques of the divorce system since the 1960s, and successfully lobbied state legislatures in the following decades.440 In contrast, there is little evidence that unmarried fathers mobilized before the 1980s, though it is possible that they took earlier action under the radar at the state and local level. By the early 1980s, some fathers rights organizations supported unmarried fathers efforts to gain custody of their children, and journalists began to write about the rights of single dads as a group, glossing over distinctions based on marital status.441 Some unmarried fathers started their own organizations later in the decade: Hirschensohn founded Equality Nationwide for Unwed Fathers (ENUF) and claimed some credit for changing California law to eliminate the conclusive marital presumption that deprived him of parental rights.442 However, nonmarital fathers organizations did not participate in federal constitutional litigation; the Supreme Court heard their claims through the filter of civil libertarian and legal services groups with their own agendas and priorities.

Nonmarital fathers also framed their arguments somewhat differently from divorced fathers. In the 1980s, Dinner has shown, the divorced fathers’ rights movement began to justify claims for paternal or joint custody as rights owed to fathers in exchange for their obligation to pay child support.443 Perhaps not surprisingly, nonmarital fathers and their allies were slower to invoke fathers’ child support obligations as the legal or moral basis for parental rights.444 Many unmarried fathers, including Stanley, were in no position to support their children. Three of the four plaintiffs in the 1980s nonmarital fathers cases had not had an opportunity to establish parental rights or a relationship with their children, and so had no support obligation to fulfill. Moreover, the organizations that filed amicus briefs on nonmarital fathers’ behalf represented indigent and low-income individuals and families in danger of having their parental rights terminated because of “neglect,” which many civil libertarians and anti-poverty lawyers saw as little more than a code word for poverty. And judges and commentators frequently drew the connection between support and rights to the detriment of nonmarital fathers: in Quilloin, for instance, the Court made much of the plaintiff’s alleged failure to provide consistent financial support for his son. It was not until McNamara that the ACLU highlighted nonmarital fathers’ support obligations as a rationale for affording them reciprocal parental rights. By then, Congress and state governments had enacted increasingly aggressive child support enforcement measures that fell most heavily on poor and low-income, often unmarried, fathers.445

Finally, and significantly, nonmarital fathers began their quest for rights burdened by deep-seated cultural images, inflected by race and class, branding them as derelicts and deadbeats.446 Divorced fathers were not immune from the deadbeat depiction, especially as child support enforcement became a national political imperative. Nevertheless, spokesmen for the divorced fathers’ rights movement tended to embody, and represent, a predominantly white and increasingly middle-class constituency. By the 1980s, divorced fathers claimed rights based upon their ability to fulfill child support obligations, in sometimes explicit contrast to nonmarital fathers, whose delinquency forced unwed mothers onto the welfare rolls.447 Unmarried fathers presented a direct threat to privatized dependency at a time when politicians traded on racialized tropes such as the “welfare queen.”448 The very term “unwed fathers” conjured for many a racialized image of the “undeserving poor,” presumptively unworthy of rights.449 The racial politics of nonmarital parenthood were overt in the 1960s and early 1970s: then, African-American mothers and children predominated as plaintiffs in the “illegitimacy” cases, and advocates exposed the racial motivation and impact of morals regulations and welfare restrictions in an effort to undermine their constitutionality.450 Though many plaintiffs in the unwed fathers cases were men of color, advocates did not bring race discrimination claims on their behalf. Still, race functioned as a powerful subtext in the unwed fathers cases and helped to shape divergent perceptions of divorced and nonmarital fathers.

From the beginning, nonmarital fathers and their supporters protested marital status discrimination in parenthood. Nonmarital fathers pointed to the legal status of divorced fathers as an appropriate baseline against which to measure their own parental rights. That baseline moved significantly during the 1970s and 1980s, as divorced fathers won joint custody statutes in many states, and formal sex neutrality with respect to financial allocations at divorce. Nonmarital fathers also won important new rights during this period, to be sure: if a biological father successfully seized the opportunity to develop a relationship with his child and faced no competing claims to fatherhood, he might seek constitutional protection of his parental status. Still, increasingly rigorousand marriage-neutralchild support enforcement mechanisms did not translate into fully equal parental rights for nonmarital fathers. For them, the “divorce bargain” remained out of reach.451

B. Justices vs. Feminists

Throughout the unwed fathers litigation, both Justices and feminists grappled with the meaning of sex neutrality, and the significance of marital status, for nonmarital parental rights. Despite some overlaps and intersections, however, feminists and the Justices debated the unwed fathers cases on fundamentally different terms.452 Feminists struggled over the implications of nonmarital fathers claims for womens rights, substantive sex equality, and the desired transformation of gender roles. Those with civil libertarian sympathies also worried about unwarranted state intrusion into the lives of poor families. For members of the Court, by contrast, the unwed fathers cases were battles between husbands and biological fathers over the rights of men, the integrity of the adoption process, and the superiority of the marital family. The Courts discussions bore the ideological imprint of the divorced fathers rights and traditional family values movements more than of feminism.

For the Justices who were open to seeing nonmarital fathers claims as a question of equal rights, sex and marital status discrimination arguments had purchase primarily because the challenged laws deprived fathers of rights, unjustly relegating them to second-class status regardless of their individual circumstances or dedication to their children. There is little evidence that these Justices regarded paternal involvement as part of a larger feminist agenda of upending traditional gender roles and challenging mothers primary responsibility for childrearing. In other words, whereas Justices who were sympathetic to equality arguments were primarily concerned with whether fathers, as a group or individually, were deserving of rights, feminists who favored equal treatment for fathers did so largely because they hoped mothers, and women generally, would benefit from disrupting gendered assumptions about parenting.

For feminists civil libertarian allies, this commitment to sex equality for mothers intersected with a growing concern about state authorities extinguishing poor parents rights in the name of childrens welfare. Terminating the parental rights of nonmarital fathers based on nothing more than a best-interests-of-the-child determination had troubling implications for mothers and fathers alike. Indeed, terminations based on neglect arguably had the greatest impact on mothers, who were more likely to have assumed primary responsibility for childrens care and therefore had the most to lose from state intervention.453

Similarly, the Justices and feminists who were skeptical of nonmarital fathers rights claims diverged in their reasoning and in their underlying motivations. For several members of the Court, the specter hanging over the nonmarital fathers cases was that of adoptions thwarted by the need to identify, locate, and notify biological fathers whose consent had previously been immaterial. For these Justices, the states interest in finding stable marital homes for illegitimate children outweighed the interests of nonmarital fathers, at least those who had not developed relationships with or legitimated their children. The desire for a smooth path to adoption at a time when the supply of adoptable infants had plummeted converged with a persistent belief in the superiority of marital families to motivate these Justices resistance to nonmarital fathers claims. In contrast, feminists who were skeptical of formal sex equality in parental rights were concerned primarily about womens autonomy to make meaningful choices about their own and their childrens futures without interference from the state or from nonmarital fathers.454

Justices and feminists also disagreed among themselves and with each other about what role, if any, marital status should play in determining parental rights. For some feminists on either side of the fathers rights question, marital status was largely beside the point. Unlike fathers rights skeptics on the Court, most feminists did not assume the superiority of marital families. Nor were feminists particularly invested in the efficiency of adoption procedures except to the extent that they vindicated a mothers truly voluntary decision to surrender her child. And many feminists who were skeptical of formal sex neutrality for nonmarital parents had similar qualms about the equal treatment of men and women at divorce.

Marital status mattered to many participants in the debate over parental rights, but in different ways and for different reasons. For the Court, formal marriage signaled a man’s commitment to accept the full responsibilities of fatherhood; in exchange, he received the full complement of parental prerogatives. Nonmarriage raised a presumption, rebuttable only in certain circumstances, that a father lacked such commitment. For many of the feminists who were skeptical of nonmarital fathers claim to equal treatment, marital primacy was a means to an end rather than an end in itself. In other words, if sex neutrality was now required for marital parents who divorced, then marital status-based distinctions at least helped to preserve nonmarital mothers autonomy against further incursions. For others, marriage was morally significant, but not for what it said about a mans commitment to fatherhood; rather, marriage signaled a woman’s consent to her partner’s (now presumptively equal) parental rights. The Court and some feminists agreed that nonmarital fathers should be held to a higher standard than mothers or marital fathers. But the Justices and feminist skeptics reached this conclusion through very different conceptions of the relationship between sex equality and marital supremacy.

In other areas of constitutional sex equality law, social movements—often in dialogue with countermovements—shaped each other’s positions and together influenced outcomes in the Supreme Court. As Reva Siegel has shown, conflict over the ERA tempered the arguments of its friends and foes and contributed to a “de facto ERA”—an equal protection jurisprudence that reflected mutually imposed limitations on the scope of sex equality.455 Hints of this dynamic appear in the unwed fathers cases, such as when feminists worried that siding with Quilloin might send the wrong signal about the meaning of the ERA for mothers’ autonomy and parental prerogatives.456 By and large, though, the nonmarital fathers’ cases reflect a profound disconnect between feminist arguments and the terms of federal constitutional jurisprudence. In part, this was a matter of timing: it was not until the 1980s that the “feminist” dilemma made its way into Supreme Court briefs. By then, path dependency and an increasingly conservative political climate may have foreclosed significant feminist influence in either direction. Two other movements, divorced fathers’ rights and traditionalist conservatism, instead left their ideological fingerprints on the nonmarital fathers cases.

To the extent that the Court embraced nonmarital fathers’ rights, it was largely on terms that resonated with the divorced fathers’ rights movement. As scholars have shown, divorced fathers’ rights activists often co-opted the principle of formal sex neutrality to advance paternal prerogatives at women’s expense.457 Whereas feminists hoped that legal sex neutrality would advance substantive sex equality by unsettling traditional gender roles, fathers’ rights advocates sought to maintain gender hierarchies within marriage.458 Fathers’ rights leaders eventually sought a “divorce bargain” that exchanged custody rights for the fulfillment of child support obligations.459 The Court’s emphasis on the provision of consistent financial support as a prerequisite for nonmarital fathers’ right to consent to adoption reflects a similar calculus, in which a father proved his mettle by assuming the traditional male breadwinner role. Moreover, the Justices who embraced nonmarital fathers’ claims, like divorced fathers’ rights activists, never did so on the ground that women would benefit from shared responsibility for parenting or from the disruption of gender role stereotypes.

Insofar as the Justices resisted nonmarital fathers’ claims, they often did so in ways that reflected traditionalist views about gender roles and marriage. The dissenting opinions in Stanley and Caban and the majorities in Fiallo and Parham embraced a deeply gendered conception of parenthood. On this view, mothers, irrespective of marital status, inevitably formed strong bonds with their offspring, whereas fathers needed marriage to anchor them to children. Motherhood as women’s highest calling is, of course, a mainstay of the traditionalist vision of family.460 And Parham has long been featured on Eagle Forum’s “Top Ten Cases that Prove the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) Would Have Been a Disaster,” joined more recently by Miller v. Albright, which upheld citizenship laws that placed greater burdens on nonmarital fathers and their children than on other parent-child pairs.461

The Justices’ attitudes toward nonmarital families varied significantly, to be sure. When it came to fatherhood, those attitudes did not neatly align with other ideological preferences. White, who took conservative positions on abortion rights, homosexuality, and constitutional standards for parental rights terminations,462 was fathers’ most ardent champion. Douglas, a liberal icon, initially scorned Peter Stanley’s claim. Marshall sympathized with nonmarital families in Stanley but stopped short of full equality for divorced and nonmarital fathers in Quilloin. Brennan took fathers’ side in most cases, but joined the Lehr majority. And Stevens, considered one of the more liberal Justices on many issues, was among the most hostile to nonmarital fathers’ rights.463

Still, many of the Justices shared a commitment to marital supremacy. In the stepfather adoption cases, the Court assumed the inherent superiority of a two-parent marital family unit almost regardless of biological or social ties. In the newborn adoption cases, parental rights advocates defending the integrity of poor families battled adoption proponents who worried that consent requirements would interfere with smooth transfers of parental rights. On balance, many of the Justices, across the ideological spectrum, believed nonmarital children were best raised by married parents and spared the “stigma of illegitimacy.” In the early 1980s, Justice Stevens could credibly tell his colleagues in the Lehr majority that they all shared Hafen’s “bias in favor of the formal family.”464 By the end of the decade, the majority embraced the legal primacy of marriage, upholding the termination of Hirschensohn’s parental rights notwithstanding his established relationship with the biological daughter who called him “daddy.”

C. After the Constitutional Equality Revolution

In the years after Michael H., feminist ambivalence and disagreement about unwed fathers rights persisted. Some, in the tradition of Ginsburg and Law, continued to worry that maintaining traditional maternal preferences perpetuated gender stereotypes and patterns of inequality.465 Others, such as Mary Becker,466 Karen Czapanskiy,467 and Martha Fineman,468 rejected formal sex neutrality for unmarried parents and for family law more generally, as perpetuating rather than ameliorating substantive inequality. Mary Lyndon Shanley,469 Katharine Bartlett,470 and others sought middle ground through more functional or less exclusive conceptions of parenthood. Indeed, as legal and cultural definitions of family became less formal, and as open adoption, third-party visitation, and blended families grew increasingly common, the imperative to choose between fathers became less evident. Focusing on function rather than on marriage, biology, or gender, and thinking beyond the two-parent dyad advanced sex neutrality and shared parenting by emphasizing the importance of care and nurture for all parents regardless of sex. These interventions held the promise of circumventing the feminist dilemma without relinquishing shared feminist goals.

At centurys end, the states diverged, sometimes dramatically, in their approach to the constitutional rights of nonmarital fathers. Courts in Texas and California, for instance, took a more expansive view of nonmarital fathers rights than they had in earlier cases such as Kirkpatrick and McNamara. In 1987, the Texas Supreme Court interpreted the state Equal Rights Amendment to invalidate the statute challenged in Kirkpatrick, which required nonmarital fathers, but not mothers, to satisfy a best-interests test in order to legitimate a child.471 In In re Raquel Marie X., the New York Court of Appeals held unconstitutional a statute that required nonmarital fathers seeking to block the adoption of an infant under six months old to have lived with the childs biological mother for a certain period of time.472 The California Supreme Court, inthe 1992 case In re Kelsey S., held unconstitutional a state statutory scheme because it enabled a biological mother unilaterally to prevent a biological father from establishing the presumed father status necessary to veto an adoption.473 Many states, however, maintained legal barriers that limited nonmarital fathers ability to withhold consent for the adoption of their infants, and otherwise restricted the circumstances in which biological fathers could assert parental rights.474 High-profile cases in which courts returned children to their biological parents after many years living with adoptive parents spurred state legislative efforts to curtail birth parents rights and stabilize adoptions.475 By the turn of the century, states laws regarding parentage and consent to adoption were a complex patchwork of statutes and case law that reflected widely varying interpretations of federal and state constitutional law.476

In recent years, a new generation of progressive and feminist scholars has called for legal, institutional, and cultural reforms to bolster the role of nonmarital fathers in the lives of their children.477 Citing the benefits to children of fathers involvement and the importance of encouraging co-parenting after the dissolution of nonmarital relationships, these commentators regret the laws complicity in maternal gatekeeping that allows mothers to exclude willing biological fathers from their childrens lives. Others remain skeptical, inclined to protect mothers autonomy and wary of fathers rights claims that appear insensitive to womens subordination within and outside the family.478 Once on the cutting edge of constitutional sex equality law, debates over nonmarital parents parental rights now occur largely outside its ambit.479

1. Collateral Consequences: The Derivative Citizenship Cases

Whether one sees the Courts withdrawal from this constitutional controversy as a salutary opportunity for federalist experimentation or a regrettable instance of judicial abdication, the Courts avoidance of equality questions in the unwed fathers parental rights cases has had significant collateral consequences for constitutional sex equality law.480 Although the Court ignored feminist arguments in the unwed fathers cases of the 1970s and 1980s, at the turn of the twenty-first century equal protection challenges to sex-discriminatory citizenship transmission requirements forced a reckoning. Miller v. Albright481 and Nguyen v. INS.482 at last impelled the Court to grapple with the feminist case for—though not against—sex neutrality for nonmarital parents. Lorelyn Penero Miller and Tuan Anh Nguyen challenged provisions of the Immigration and Nationality Act (INA) that operated to prevent their fathers from passing on U.S. citizenship, under circumstances in which a citizen mother, marital or not, would automatically have been able to do so.

Unlike the parental rights cases, these citizenship cases posed no feminist dilemma.483 As in Stanley, Wiesenfeld,and Fiallo, the fathers opponent was the state, and a victory for sex neutrality would not come at mothers expense. Indeed, feminists made powerful arguments in law review articles and amicus briefs that limiting fathers ability to transmit citizenship to illegitimate offspring hurt women at least as much as men by perpetuating mothers primary responsibility for the care and support of nonmarital children.484 As director of the ACLU Womens Rights Project more than two decades earlier, Ginsburg had badly wanted to present such arguments as amicus in Fiallo.485 Now a Supreme Court Justice, she made them in dissent.486 In Miller, Justice Stevenss plurality opinion elaborated the views first articulated in his Caban dissent almost two decades earlier, deeming sex-differentiated laws to be justified by the undisputed assumption that fathers are less likely than mothers to have the opportunity to develop relationships with nonmarital children.487 Stevens, joined by Chief Justice Rehnquist, declared singularly unpersuasive the contention that erecting higher barriers to citizenship transmission for nonmarital fathers promoted gender-based stereotypes about paternal disengagement.488

A torrent of criticism greeted Justice Stevenss position. Even scholars sympathetic to the feminist arguments against sex neutrality in the parental rights and adoption contexts condemned the challenged INA provisions, noting that the concerns Stevens raised in Caban and Lehr simply did not apply.489

Because only four Justices reached the merits of the equal protection question in Miller, the same provisions came before the Court again in Nguyen three years later.490 This time, a 5-4 majority upheld the disparate requirements for nonmarital fathers, over Justice OConnors vehement dissent. Eighteen years earlier, OConnor had persuaded Stevens to omit his language about mothers inevitable responsibility for nonmarital children in Lehr. Now, armed with quotations from 1930s National Womans Party leaders supplied by scholars and amici,491 and with three decades of constitutional sex equality precedents,492 she wrote that the challenged law was paradigmatic of a historic regime that left women with responsibility, and freed men from responsibility, for nonmarital children.493 Most recently, in Flores-Villar v. United States, scholars and advocates submitted briefs articulating the feminist case for sex neutrality.494 Though Justice Elena Kagans recusal left the Court equally divided, resulting in affirmance of the lower court decision upholding the challenged provisions,495 these laws are likely to come before the Court again.496

The limitations of the Courts reasoning in Miller and Nguyen suggests that the Justices failure to engage with feminist arguments for and against sex neutrality in the adoption cases had consequences beyond the parental rights context. The Court failed to acknowledge, much less answer, the fundamental question posed by the unwed fathers cases: what would true sex neutrality look like in the context of nonmarital parenthood, and when does sex neutrality serve womens autonomy and equality interests? In other words, when is formal equality an effective tool to combat substantive inequality, and when does it fall short? If the Court had seen the central question posed by nonmarital fathers rights as one of the relationship between formal sex neutrality and substantive sex equality, then the answer in the citizenship transmission cases should have been clear. Sex neutrality in derivative citizenship served the interests of both men and women and posed no feminist dilemma.497

2. Beyond Marital Supremacy: Unintended Consequences?

Today, the constitutional law of the family stands at a crossroads. As the advent of marriage equality coincides with an unprecedented socioeconomic and racial marriage gap, the future of marital supremacy is among the most pressing outstanding constitutional questions. In the years since the Court decided the unwed fathers cases, lesbian and gay individuals and families have fought state-level battles for legal recognition of parental rights irrespective of marital status or biology. Many have worried that marriage equality—especially given the majority’s glorification of marriage in Obergefell v. Hodges—bodes ill for the constitutional status of nonmarital families.498 Recent work by Douglas NeJaime suggests, to the contrary, that marriage equality may support, rather than impede, the recognition of intentional and functional parenthood, with salutary implications for nonmarital as well as marital families.499 In the absence of marriage rights, some states have granted parental status to unmarried women and men based on intent and function, rather than gender and biology; contemplated the possibility of recognizing more than two legal parents; and reconsidered the historic link between marital status and parental rights.500

Notably, advocates for LGBT parents made creative use of the unwed fathers cases as they sought to detach parentage from biology, gender, and marriage. The Court’s emphasis in Lehr on whether or not a nonmarital father had “grasp[ed]” the “opportunity” to parent offered by his biological tie suggested that, in the absence of marriage, parental status depended on conduct rather than on a mere genetic link. In a trio of landmark California Supreme Court cases decided in 2005, LGBT rights advocates used the unwed fathers cases to support their argument that parentage should depend on whether a biological parent’s partner intended to, and did, function as a parent, rather than on formal marital status or on biology.501 Remarkably, these advocates even harnessed Michael H.’s protection of the “unitary family” to suggest that a same-sex couple’s marriage-like relationship should support a finding of parental rights for a nonmarital partner.502

The unmarried fathers cases, with their emphasis on parental conduct rather than mere biology, unexpectedly aided non-biological LGBT parents who lacked access to marriage but who clearly had demonstrated their commitment to parenthood. Conversely, conferringparental status based upon functional and intent-based criteria rather than formal categories such as marital status and biology could redound to the benefit of many committed nonmarital fathers. Even more promising is the prospect of legal recognition for more than two parents.503 If courts had not felt compelled to choose one father to the exclusion of the other, after all, Quilloin, Lehr, and Hirschensohn might have maintained relationships with their children without precluding the establishment of legal relationships with new stepfathers.504 Open adoptions, in which birth parents maintain ties with their children,505 could have allowed Laura S. and the mother of Ed McNamara’s biological daughter to effectuate their preference for adoption by legal strangers without terminating Kirkpatrick’s and McNamara’s (or their own) parental rights altogether.506 Whether the sequel to marriage equality is a challenge to marital supremacy or its retrenchment, a departure from legal formalism or its reinstantiation, only time will tell.507

Conclusion

The unwed fathers cases receive little attention from constitutional scholars, and they are often relegated to a footnote in the history of sex equality law despite a significant (albeit small) body of feminist scholarship that critically engages them. In part, this neglect reflects how the Court framed these cases as questions of due process, rather than equal protection, and as contests between nonmarital fathers and prospective stepfathers, rather than as questions of sex and marital status equality vis-à-vis mothers and divorced fathers.

Integrating the unwed fathers cases into the larger history of equality jurisprudence helps to illuminate the nature of the law’s limitations. Since the 1970s, scholars have observed that the Justices have misconstrued sex differences as “natural” or “biological” rather than socially constructed and essentially malleable. As a result, the Court has often been unwilling to see men and women as “similarly situated” for the purposes of equal protection analysis.

The unwed fathers cases invite us to consider how the rhetoric of sex differences intersects with and sometimes obscures another primary axis of differentiation in constitutional equality law: marital status. In cases involving marital households, formal sex neutrality largely prevailed in the Supreme Court; no longer could the government distinguish between husbands and wives, widows, and widowers in the provision of public benefits such as Social Security. States could neither limit alimony to wives, nor, increasingly, overtly discriminate between marital mothers and fathers as presumptively preferable custodial parents. Stereotypes about women as naturally superior nurturers and caregivers and men as primary breadwinners became illegitimate bases for differentiating between spouses—and to a large degree, between marital parents.

Ironically, then, while the law of marriage had long been a bastion of gender differentiation, in the 1970s and 1980s, marriage effectively became a prerequisite for formal legal equality in parental rights. A sex-neutral approach to parenting within marriage seemed clearly to advance feminist aspirations for an egalitarian division of labor at home, a prerequisite for freedom and equal opportunity in the public sphere. Divorce tested the utility of sex neutrality in parenting, but the feminist dilemma proved particularly acute in the context of nonmarital parental rights. Absent the definitive moment of maternal consent to paternal involvement in a child’s life implicit in marriage, feminist skeptics required more than a biological tie and good intentions to overcome maternal prerogatives.

Like the feminist campaign against illegitimacy penalties, the feminist debate over nonmarital fathers’ parental rights never infiltrated the Justices’ deliberations, much less Court opinions. Unlike the feminist campaign against illegitimacy penalties, debates over parental rights reflected real differences among feminists over the utility of sex neutrality as a principle of legal reform. For some, parental sex equality seemed like a luxury only the privileged could afford. Others believed the time had come to negotiate a new nonmarital bargain.

The story of nonmarital fathers’ quest for equality complicates our understanding of the historical relationship between feminism and marital supremacy. Where mothers’ and fathers’ interests coincided, feminists could wholeheartedly attack the legal privileging of marriage. When fathers’ rights threatened mothers’ freedom, marital primacy shielded unmarried women from the downside of sex neutrality. But that protection came at a price: the Court’s failure to grapple with the demands of substantive sex equality or to question the superiority of marital families.

The revolution in constitutional sex equality law laid important groundwork for the success of the marriage equality movement. By making marriage formally gender-neutral, feminists unseated the most powerful traditional argument for limiting marriage to the union of a man and a woman. Marriage equality for same-sex couples is now the law of the land,508 but the marriage gap shows no sign of closing. Nonmarital parenthood increasingly is the rule rather than the exception, especially among lower-income Americans, and in communities of color. How, if at all, the Constitution will speak to burgeoning inequalities between marital and nonmarital families in this new age of marriage equality remains to be seen.